hello girls,
Hasn't been in here for quite a while and there are many new people. *wave wave* hello to all...
verena - the decision will be to buy our own place before getting married. I have already told him the max length I am going to stay with his mum is no longer than 3 months.
aggiegal - TOP is temporary occupation permit. This signifies that the building is done and can move in. The reason why his mum asked where we are going to stay if we applied for the AMK DBSS is because she knew we are plannning for 2009 wedding and the AMK DBSS isn't ready until end 2011. So when bf said we would rent outside, she said why cannot stay with her.
According to bf, he said it is a very casual family chat and I am overly serious. I think is not wise to have too many women in a house. If I would to move in to stay with them, he has 3 women to cope with. His mum, his wife (that's me!) and his sister. Definitely going to be chaotic.
Before we left for our short getaway, my mum did a brief check and she said 10 Oct is not a good date for us. In case, you gals wondering why my mum wouldn't help confirm our wedding date, is because she strongly believed that is the guy's side to come out with the wedding date.
So now, I have found the lunar calendar online and also matched with another "good" wedding date. Bf has passed it to his mum. We are going to leave again today for a mission trip. Will see if his mum can confirm a wedding date.
Just cannot believe that I had to go through so much trouble just to get a date. *shake head*
http://www.herongyang.com/2009/2009_chinese_calendar_v2.pdf
http://www.herongyang.com/chinese/wedding/index.html
Pasted the online links here, in case anyone interested or in case, this is not the correct lunar calendar for 2009.
mashi - i remember you went down to eclarity, did you go down on a weekday or weekend? Did you just call to say you are coming on that same day or advance notice required? We will probably make a trip down when we are back. Both of us are taking long break now so would be a good time for us.
oh yes
aggiegal, i also dunno why certain shops said they cannot resize the half eternity ring. Is very puzzling to me too.
to the rest of the girls... happy preparation! catch up with you gals when i am back again