Suzanna
Basically you go to ROM website and e-file. You will need names of bride (yourself), groom and witnesses (1 fr each side). You also need their IC numbers and addresses of bride and groom. When you e-file, you choose the date. If date you want is not available, then you'll have to choose another. Don't have to wait by your PC at 12 midnite la. Any time of day you register is fine but period between e-file n soleminsation date is 3 mths.
Don't need to find JP unless you want a specific one to solemnise your wedding. E-file then print the notification
You'll receive notification fr ROM nearer the date and you'll have to bring your IC, groom's IC and witnesses' ICs (all must be original) as well as notification letter down on the date specified. If you can't make it then you can request to change subject to approval. When your verify documents, you'll have to take an oath. Whole procedure is pretty fast if no queue. Timing given is a rough gauge like 2-3 pm.
On your ROM date, wear something pretty. Need not be eleborate. But cannot wear slippers and singlet. Basically dress smart. I'm sure you'll want to look pretty in your ROM photos
A max of 30 pple including you, groom and witnesses can enter the room but there may not be seats for all. Bring along original ICs for yourself, groom and witnesses. These will be verified again before ceremony. You will need your rings too but not compulsory.
JP will ask you standard qns and just answer. I tink qn 1, answer is 'I do', qn 2, answer is 'I will'. After that you exchange rings. You can also prepare your own vows if you have. Then take some shoots and it's over. Whole procedure takes less than 30 mins depending on what you and groom want. Hope this answers your qns.