Nikiko,
My GDL also 3rd Oct. haha... still wondering still got wat haven get yet. tink shld b a simple affair..
its common. as all of us wan the day to b the best n special. thus, dun wan any hipcups that day. so tend to tink more lor. so only way is try to relax.... got 1 season, me also keep dreaming abt the bad tings. but once relax abit, then better liao. most impt is dun stress urself too much..
table issues is most of us will face. for me, my tables also increasing in a way.but nw trying to control. for ur case mah, c wat ur parents wans. if wan to add additional tables, nt alot ok. if too many then juz tell them the ballroom is limited. cannot take so much tables....