(2008) Brides of year 2008

morning ladies.. so good u all can go hokkaido for honeymoon.. my hb n I can only go taiwan coz need to save for the coming house =(
 


hi all here...thanks for showing concern for me...my dad wanted to tok to me abt our wedding last nite but my mum was sick so she slept quite early...thus, we did not mention anything last nite
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hi koyoyo,maybe if u dun mind u can tell me which software you use? i saw the link you given me, it's very nice leh!

hi Meiling, you oso tinking of your songs ar? me too leh...hv no idea wat songs is nice...

Any BTBs here wanna share what songs they have decide for 1st & 2nd march in and childhood montage song?
 
Hi Plasterbride,

Ya! I agreed that rings from Love & Co have lighter weight as compared to the others. This is 1 of my concerns too. In fact, after visiting so many shops, I find that Tianpo's ones are quite nice and 'heavy'.... And they have this 5 times servicing card which we can used to re-plated our ring every 1 to 2 yrs. Kinda worth....

GSS will probably be having the same 20% promo for wedding bands. Unlikely to offer more than that. You might want to try surfing the jewllery chains' website to see their past offers. =)

Actually, I not really padang... I will avoid attending weddings but some of the gals that I am inviting to be my jie-meis are already married and with kids.... To me, jie meis must be someone who really care abt me and would go all teh way out to make sure that I have a smooth wedding party.... Check with the elderly at home. If they are ok then u might want to consider asking your married friends. (^_^)
 
Hi yan_zi,

my solemnisation is over last december... my FH wanted a separate event cos not so rushed. and my friend commented that for weddings he's attended, those ROM on same day ones look much more tired n haggard in the photo-taking during the night banquet compared to those ROM on an earlier date cos not so tight and not so stress on AD. but guess may not be true for everyone... my cousins some ROM on same day still looking great!!!

wat abt u??
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hey lara, taiwan is a lovely place! taipei is my favorite place in the whole world haha.. went twice with frens over the past 2 years.. going again for 1 next month with htb.. pre-wedding trip? hee hee.. which part you planning to go?
 
yo morning gals!
thanks for the advice on ballerina shoes.. i went to the big shopping centres like Taka, Wisma, Tangs.. but no nice ones.. haii..

providencia, the shoes is for my short gown.. i mtm one for photoshoot.. hee hee.. a bit of splurge la, cos wont' be wearing it on AD.. but i like the effect of short gown in photos
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wow meiling after hearing you say you have 3 gowns at the banquet, i also heart itchy leh.. :P
 
An Chuang items varies from family to family, dialect group to dialect group so every family is different. It also varies from zodiac signs etc.

For mine, the fortune teller say to buy pineapple, tangerine, and another 2 fruits (that we will eat! hahaha...that practical man..) plus an angpow to put $12/$120/$1200. He say don't even need to buy new bed , just new sheets. Then we just place in the designated positions, then we eat! hahaha.....
 
oh MeiLinG, I have been spoilt rotten as I always splurge on at least 450 thread count bedsheets. It is wonderful, I tell you. You don't want to sleep on ordinary bedsheets already. My mum always say I think I make of gold isit...hahahaha...

Or you think of the LV bags you can buy in Europe lah.
 
hi jac,
i also thought of sending the flowers to old follks home or hospitals...but in singapore, some of these places are quite atas, they may not want 'leftovers' ....

and you need to get a couple of good friends to drive the flowers over...
i was thinking of NUH cos nearby...LOL...
but some staff nurses there quite atas :P
Alexandra hospital is another of my choices, was volunteer there at one time...all the old folks...quite poor thing..no one visit and my dialect sucks, so wanna chat with them also so difficult...

FH havent buy proposal ring....supposed to go with another friend of mine, getting married 7 days after me, to shop together..(more bargaining power)but that guy wont shop till after april. :P
hahah...so i'll have to wait long long till P day.
anyway, told FH, die die before indian wedding must propose. (indian wedding in nov)
 
good links for the chinese stuff...i'll print out for my in laws (and myself and parents)hehehe...
all i know is COLLECT ANG POWS!!!
lol...

oh, regarding donation thingy,
i was thinking of buying catholic welfare lucky draw thingy and use a wedding favors, so if the guest lucky, can win lor...at the same time, sort of make a donation in their name or something to that effect...
*scratch head*
but i think catholic welfare tickets not sold in dec. :P
 
Good morning, Ladies

Initally, i want go switerland, but is too expensive, so is out of my burget... Hence decided to go to Japan.

Hi, Selina
Heard from my colleague, June is also a good month for visiting Japan, as they will be full of Lavender... Nice scenery!
 
nelle,
wah...princess man... =)
i use 300 already feel like its a luxury...and heart pain when i see the price...hehehe...
anyway, work so hard is to enjoy life, else why work?
and a good night's sleep can only do you good... hehe...so many justifications ;)
 
wow wow, you gals are fast.. all booked HM trip liao.. mine still hanging there.. I think i will plan for my HM after my AD.. hehe..

Taiwan is a very nice place. I love it.. been to taipei twice.. just love shopping and eating there.
 
nec, you seem to have many things going on. A traditional Indian wedding, a church wedding and a dinner banquet? *faint*
How can you handle?
 
hi apple_gal, i saw in the website that lavender will be in full bloom only in july and aug.. I hope i will be able to catch it. Ya.. summer will be a great time to see flowers in hokkaido. Really looking forward to it!!
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Initially i also wanted to go switzerland and italy in Jun. But it clashes with Euro 2008 which Switzerland is one of the hosting countries. Will be very crowded and the hotel rates will soar like mad too. So in the end decided to go hokkaido.
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Hi Sue, dun be agitated, there are always ppl like these around.... they think by forwarding email have make their work easier but not true cos end up, they will overlook the small small details... then it will be even worst... and i understand ur frustration on the taiji aspect cos i always kena in office too... kekek... but in some ways, i feel that since we are not good at it, it would be better cos end up, we dun kena arrow by ppl too...

Jeslyn, hope ur mum get well soon and ur upcoming discussion a fruitful one..

Uksportsgal/Meiling/Koyoyo, i am also at the midst of sourcing for the right songs for childhood montage, march in and first dish presentation... really stressful cos this is in my hands as hubby have not much opinion on songs...

Koyoyo, i saw the video u post on multiply, is that done by you?? btw, when u did your ROM Moments previously and mention some software to me, are those the same softwares u using to create these nice montage for ur wedding??

sorrie, too many questions le, cos i simply have no idea of this and that... so need to clarify lots of things...
 
hi ladies, my hotel asked me to choose wedding favour liaoz... I will be printing the invitation card inserts next month.. Thinking of whether to ask the printing company to tie the insert for me or i tie it myself. hee
 
hi lara, it's ok... taiwan is also a good HM place if you know where to go..
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You can go hokkaido after you finish your house reno..
 
Song ar... okok I got few website that is good.. but is at home .. let me dig out and post here :P

you going for what langauge songs?? English? Chinese? pure music? other langauge??

hmmm just few songs that flash across my mind now.. I think 1st dish use "Be my guest"- beauty and the beast that song.. v nice hahahaha is good... then march in .... A whole new world- Aladine....got one song "can you feel the love tonighte" .... Disney one all not bad one.. hahaha that time ROM I use the korean show sound track.. "Full house" one of the song inside... is pure music :P I like it hee hee.. then after that they use that for background music the whole nite.. hee hee.. "Grow old with you"- wedding singer?? that one also nice.... "when you say nothing at all??"

Then if is chinese songs ar... find older songs ba.. now a days no nice suitable songs le.. becareful of the lyrics also..

hee hee I might use cantonese songs also.. Jacky song are nice :P Hear liao everyone know which songs....
 
moments0442, i never go any fairs leh.. coz we already have the airtixs (courtesy of my dad's krisflyer points)..thot of getting a land package but haven done anything yet.

shybride, we r thinking of going taipei, hualien n taichung

selina, i hope we can!
 
hi-5 xinyi! taipei's people especially service staff are very friendly polite & sweet.. very nice talking to them
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not to mention the food and night markets!!

lara, i went hualien once too. nice place, more laid back.. can go see the scenery
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shybride, this one i must agree with you.. they are really friendly and polite.. i prefer taipei more than HK.. I hope to go back to taipei next yr.. if budget allows. lots of things to shop.. i can spend money even before reaching taipei, hehe, order their online stuffs.
 
Hi Jeslyn/Tinkybell,

I am using the below:

For march-in:
- Air for 1st March in
- Morning for 2nd March in

For montage:
- Over the rainbow for childhood
- not yet for courtship
- Nothing gonna change my heart for PS photos

I dun need for 1st dish presentation cos mine is a high tea buffet.... so will be a series of classical songs.... juz keep playing them thru out the high tea.... hahhaa....
 
Hahaha which song you want? I don't have the song now le.... but as I mention I rem I have keep some of the good website where we can find songs.. let me find find tonite :P
 
xinyi> oh.. so u've still decided to do it locally.. haha. okie...
how much is the charges?
City Square in JB is RM$60 for 1st 100 inserts..subseq 100 at RM$20..
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hi gals,
sorry, juz came back frm a briefing...wah, so many posts liao...

sue,
it's like dat one...MOE always email to us n expect to take action, n other fellow colleagues frm other schs n divisions oso will forward emails everyday to send to tis person or dat person in my sch...ended up being a postman to forward d emails to d respective parties
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haha, my mail box is always above quota cos got many cc mails...u know lah, "juz follow d law" :P

jeslyn n tinkybell,
yah im looking for songs but rite now need to confirm my theme of songs e.g jazz, love songs etc...havent decide yet...
uksportgal, thanks for ur recommendation! seems like a nice list but i find d "b my guest" a bit common...intend to find other songs to replace
for d rest of d songs...im considering to use canon in d, fallen, a moment like tis, d perfect moment etc...im gona give my fh my input...but have to do more homework 1st :P
 
shybride,
u can always consider to get another dress/gown if ur heart is itchy...hehe, for me i die die wana change cos vain mah, wana create different looks during d banquet :P

nelle,
ur skin is made of gold leh, live like a princess sia...hehe, u r d same as my fh who's v particular abt such things as he dun like d low threadcount n warm material...
i got my fh to pay for d honeymoon so i can spend d $ on my LV n gucci bags *cross my fingers dat i can go europe for my honeymoon*

nec,
wait for d great singapore sale to go ring shipping...d discounts r v fanastic during dat period
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rach, yaya, after discussing with hubby.. still decided to print it locally. my hubby said no point just saving $50-$60 bucks and take the trouble to go down to JB, at least twice. My friends also urge me not to go, as high crime rates there.

Anyway thanks for your recommandations, you are like a promoter to the printer.. haha..
 
wow meiling thanks for the encouragement.. i think my htb will faint lor hee hee

how about the other gals? you have how many gown changes at the dinner?
 
haha yes gals.. thanks for your comfort.. i know.. just that was getting kinda frustrated haha.. but anyway.. no choice.. we are still working and there will always be such useless people around.

Wah you gals are really progressing real fast. For songs, basically have already selected the songs i want but just have to go and find the CD. haha.

mei, Cannon in d is very nice..be my guest is common? so far have not heard tt at weddings i atteneded. hehe. mine will even be more common.. coz my fav is still from this moment on.. haha.. but i really love that so i am going to use that.
 
xinyi> haha... if u are not printing alot then ok loh.. coz for those printing at least 300 pieces, its saving at least 60% loh..
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Since you are okay with $60 extra,.. then its fine... coz i really find they are good and cheap... i dun earn commission from them okay.. hahah... I'll be going down something March i guess.. to print our ROM invites.. heehe.. its just like gg there to eat loh... not that far la.. maybe coz i stay in the North.. heheh.. :P
Good things must share ma.. i'm a promoter of almost anything that I've used and patronised loh.. as long as good.. then i'll recommend la.. keke.. :P

JB ok la.. u dun go late at nite la.. sat/sun afternoon is okay.. hehehe...been there many times... its been okay. we usuall go there shop shop a little and eat loh...
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I was told i cannnot do anything related to wedding in the lunar 7th mth (mth of Aug).. so my invites must be out by July

Just in case, i'll contact my hotel ard mid May.. so it won't be that rush.. by then if my co-ordinator say there might be new design of the invites.. then bo bian have to wait a little longer.. take a look at all the choices i have, then decide which to use
 
sue,
frm tis moment on?...i heard it at least at 2 weddings i attended last yr...so decided not to use dat song for my 1st march-in...u oso progress v fast, decided on ur 1st march-in song liao...i think i'll merge d traditional bridal march-in song wif another song...
 
meiling, my in laws not giving me si dian jin, say they will subsitute with something else, good also, i dun really like gold.
sorry shybride, can't help with the shoes, dun noe where they sell.
how many gowns do you all have? i want a lot, but dun noe how to fit them in, and then after wedding, no space to keep them.
nec - your hb is Indian? I hear that in India, the weddings last for many days.
 
shybride,
hehehe...it depends on wat's ur priority, cos my priority is to look mei-mei dat nite n not time to mingle wif my guests...doubt i've got time to mingle due to d no. of tables so might as well do sth wif dat time :P
 
providencia,
hehehe...actually i asked for white gold lor but my fh said d mum insisted to have sth wif abit of gold in it cos it's more auspicious
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mayb try to bargain for rose gold instead...

nec,
u watched bride n prejudice? heheh....i saw d indian weddings in dat show n it was really an eye-opener for me...though i've heard frm frens but nothing beats to seeing it myself :P
 
shybride,
for me....u'll faint when u hear tis, i intend to wear my ROM gown (short WG) for my solemnisation ceremony b4 d banquet, den change into my WG, den EG n den cheongsum/tea dress (different frm d afternn one) for sending off guests :P
 
this thread moves real fast....

hi shybride,
I just changing once during the meal as mine is a lunch not dinner.
not very sure if i'm getting anything from mil side... even if i do it's coming out of my htb's pockets lol...
 
Meiling, ya ya, i think rose gold (a bit pink right?) looks better than yellow gold, at least can compromise.

I'm planning one change, but now (tks to you girls
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) so tempted to have more gowns.. tsk tsk
 


waxie> Oh yah.. in that case for Sept brides, we just get things done 4 months in advance loh.. I was thinking to start printing inserts by 28th June (last week of June). To pick it up by 1st week July. To send it out by 3rd week July..
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My GDL is 26th July (Sat). One month before coz my AD is 1st Sept.. i'm the 1st BTB in Sept loh... hahhhaa..the other 'green' never see her online one leh.. hehehe...
And i guess i'll be moving my stuffs into our love nest in July also ba... July will be a busy month... for us..to get everything settled... hehehe...so exciting loh... 5 more months of preparation and slimming....

okok...so when shall we meet up???

24th March, Monday shall we meet up for coffee??
Where would you all like to go??
Suggestions please?
 

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