Wow, Calisa, your wedding date is coming pretty soon...but don't panic cause that won't help things...
My own is next year probably last qtr, havent decided actual day b'cus now its lunar 7th mth. Anyway, me and my wife-to-be have started looking around for hotels or restaurants to hold our banquet at.
I hope at least you have done that... if you haven't and find it hard to find places in hotels to place dinners, maybe can try either lunches (I personally think it is ok although traditionally people hold dinners) or have it at some restaurants.
Also need to prepare wedding packages (gowns, photo shoots, makeup, bridal car, solemnisation/ROM venues, invitation cards, honeymoon destinations, place to stay after marriage etc etc.) alot of stuff to prepare... If people around you are so concerned, that's a good thing, you can approach them for help also
There are alot of experienced jie jies and mei meis around here that will lend you a helping hand too. I'm still learning, plus I'm a guy so my knowledge is limited...
