cladia>i m older then u wor,me 77 de,i love to have a kid last time..but seeing my younger sis who is the same as u ,just had a new born bb....seem have to scrafic alot of thing for the baby wor.time,money,sleep ect,not easy as what i think.now having 2nd tot,but like wat u say ,i also not young already,and sumtime this type of thing is not what u want ,u will got it,some couple try for so many years still dont have,hubby also said let nature take it own course.