brightstar, wahahaha, we are communicating via different thread!!!
Well, I actually am fine whether the guests come or can't attend. Strangely, I think everyone has their priorities, so it's fine they can't attend, that won't hurt the friendship or r/s I have with them though. Mine is on a weekday, so I think if they need to save the annual leave for something else they think more important, that's perfectly fine with me. No obligation lor.. heee
Many closer friends are turning up though. My wedding is so simple that I am not really having helpers. My only abled helper is my elder sister. I DIY makeup, DIY hair, and the tea ceremony for my relatives is held at the venue.
I think I am one of the most chin chay bride leow.. LOL... But we are having lots of fun preparing the wedding though, and are sure to have a fun event.
Right after lunch reception, we will abduct the photographer (pls don't call the police!!!) and race to the airport to check-in, take some ending footage, and fly out of town leow... LOL..
I am excited with both the wedding and trip though, waking up in a foreign land the next day after wedding.. Cool!