hey all, mark n i just very irritated with my FFIL. He want to meet my mom before the ROM, which is fair but then coz of chinese new yr then he wanna go up Malyasia where got chance to meet?
Then mark only comes back when my autistic bro has to go out so sat dinner cannot. Sat brunch cannot coz i got to give tuition n my mom dun wan me to change it just for them. And she was like scolding me like "they are more mobile and flexible mah. why must u be the one to compromise?"
Sun brunch cannot coz his dad's gf got baptism class n he has to attend with her. Then lunch cannot coz if my mom is not hme when my bro wakes up, he will have huge tantrum. Then cannot meet after easter coz then it's too near the ROM. Then if mark changes when he comes back, the earlier is march 17th.
Then mark was like getting more n more frustrated and I was getting irritated coz I told him things clearly already n yet he can't be bothered to go n check himself. Then I was doing all this while rushing to golden mile to get his return bus ticket for him, grabbing lunch and rushing back to office coz this lady's husband is coming during lunch time to collect the glasses he engraved for them.
I mean, he knows I already under a lot of stress with things at hme and stuff and now this. He knew I was rushing to get his ticket n stuff for him...
I started crying on my way walking back to office and then he asked me why was I crying. I just cracked there n then on the streets and said "coz i am f****** stressed" and I just kept crying....then he said "fine, for now we stick to march 17th." then i said ok. then he just said "i got to go now. bye" like he very angry like that. so now i dunno if it's he angry me or not. Sigh...I really feel like postphoning things but cannot postphone coz invites send out already n we need to do this before he does in for NS.
Then mark only comes back when my autistic bro has to go out so sat dinner cannot. Sat brunch cannot coz i got to give tuition n my mom dun wan me to change it just for them. And she was like scolding me like "they are more mobile and flexible mah. why must u be the one to compromise?"
Sun brunch cannot coz his dad's gf got baptism class n he has to attend with her. Then lunch cannot coz if my mom is not hme when my bro wakes up, he will have huge tantrum. Then cannot meet after easter coz then it's too near the ROM. Then if mark changes when he comes back, the earlier is march 17th.
Then mark was like getting more n more frustrated and I was getting irritated coz I told him things clearly already n yet he can't be bothered to go n check himself. Then I was doing all this while rushing to golden mile to get his return bus ticket for him, grabbing lunch and rushing back to office coz this lady's husband is coming during lunch time to collect the glasses he engraved for them.
I mean, he knows I already under a lot of stress with things at hme and stuff and now this. He knew I was rushing to get his ticket n stuff for him...
I started crying on my way walking back to office and then he asked me why was I crying. I just cracked there n then on the streets and said "coz i am f****** stressed" and I just kept crying....then he said "fine, for now we stick to march 17th." then i said ok. then he just said "i got to go now. bye" like he very angry like that. so now i dunno if it's he angry me or not. Sigh...I really feel like postphoning things but cannot postphone coz invites send out already n we need to do this before he does in for NS.
Best of luck to you. Fyi, my fh's friend got queue no. 2000+ when he reached at 11+am 
