jazol, cheer up.. sometimes through things that happen, then we see the true colours of people. It's ok.. friends come & go in our lives.. sometimes we need to let go as people, including ourselves change. For me, I feel that as I get older, my circle of friends decreases, but I have this small bunch of gfs whom I know are true friends, & I feel that is more than enough. It's true that quality matters more than quantity.
jhoo, yeah.. finally can say our wedding is NEXT month.. time will fly & before we know it.. our wedding is here & all those months of preparing for that one day will go by in a flash.
Yes.. we need to tidy up our own bedroom at home too as there'll be people in our room & photographs will be taken, so must be nice & neat.
piglet.. yeah.. my hubby nearly got 'cheated' by her words... but when I pointed out to him what happened to his sister, that she still control her after marriage, then my hubby agreed with me.
piglet, I feel that maybe you can tell your mum that you are super busy at work & you'll appreciate if she could called your ah gong on your behalf, then after that then you follow up.
I am like jhoo.. I'll tell my parents.. please do this & that & give them a deadline too. Of course not in a demanding way lah.. but I'll tell them to do their part so I can do my own things too. So far, my parents have been very supportive.
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Are you doing OTR or MTM?