no mei, he can work but now he just can't simply throw all wedding for me. Be frank, out of the wedding and home preparation, i did almost 90+%. Meaning he is enjoying the house and wedding lor........do u believe my new home i painted the most. What for we have agreed to have wedding 6mths after he grad? its for him to help out. If he wants to do nothing, then we should have customary st after his exam and no need to push to Jan'07. He used to help out on house cleaning, but no longer anymore. Our toilet glass screen was stained from the water mark and he said he knew about it yet don't do anything. end up i have a hard time cleaning myself in the toilet for almost half a day while sweating in there. And i demanded him to wipe it clean everytime after his bathe. When he stayed over, he will also never tidy up the bed when he was the last to leave the house. Wa lao, he getting lazier and lazier leh...if he is as thoughtful as ur hubby, i don't mind doing most lor. if he do nothing, don't expect me to give everything to him. I have my own job, i need time to rest too