Hi ladies, its been long since i last came in here... real long sia... haha
i have yet to do any spring cleaning for my home yet as now is end month, so as usual, busy with my work... For me, life was kinda stress as little niece and nephew are born, my dad was hospitalized recently and almost had brain operation, elder nephew was always sick, everything bad seems to happen together that my family can hardly breathe. past 2 months was like going different hospitals and also while i was busy with my work, i have to take care of the elder nephew and there's once i needed to drag him to my office. Now all are quite stabilised, but some of my weekends are still burn taking of the elder one.
Kaye, smilez, how's everything with the little ones? time flies and kaye is back to work. So smilez, when's ur confinement end? My poor sis did not have her proper confinement and just hope she wil be okay in future.
piglet, dun worry so much abt ur sis. its just a transition period and all will be fine once she has cool down and ur parent accepts everything. one day she will understand ur kindness. as for monster-in-law, seems dun have lor, haha. guess what, my MIL actually wants to help pay $50K for our hs loan, but we insisted no, and she insisted yes as she doesn't want us to pay so much of interest. but it will still be a no no for me. i will prefer that they keep more money with them and enjoy their old age at the later part.
jazol, wow, so nice that you went HK to celeb for anniversary. Yesterday was my first year anniversary, same as kaye
... but we did not really celebrate as HMT is having reservist and he only managed to book out on sat noon and book in again yesterday at 9pm. now im home alone
von, both of u can sit down and discuss how to manage the finance. if car loan is a huge burden, both of u can sell it off in abt 2-3 years time and get a smaller car. guess what, for me, i prefer we do not have car, then HMT wont sneak out in the middle of the night to meet his friend..