oh really got this saying ah, coz never heard my mum mentioned it before mah. *shhh better don't let her know*
Anyway, amongst my closest galfrens, 2 of them have ROMed, and one of them is planning to have her AD at the end of next year. I should be the first one to have my AD so no worries abt married jie meis. Just don't wish to cause my friend bad luck if it'll affect her.
Also, all along I thot it's preferred to have one married jie mei to follow along.