(2005) Brides of year 2005
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jam, dunno leh... he has been looking out at the few changers the past few days liao.... that's why i always get him to change for me... hehe.... ok, next time u ask him where he change. but not much diff lah for u and me cos we only changing few hundreds... not few thousands.... haha...
Jam
Hv lor...at times when really angry, tend to say the wrong words that hurt...and in the mind when chaos... start to think negative..remain single beta than marry him..
But after cool down, will tend to forget the mad things we had tot before...
Getting married is a further commitment... and after staying 2gether, bounce to hv more conflict..but after all, is husband and wife, can talk things over wan lor.
Hv lor...at times when really angry, tend to say the wrong words that hurt...and in the mind when chaos... start to think negative..remain single beta than marry him..
But after cool down, will tend to forget the mad things we had tot before...
Getting married is a further commitment... and after staying 2gether, bounce to hv more conflict..but after all, is husband and wife, can talk things over wan lor.
jam, to me, no matter how angry, also cannot mention the word divorce..... cos i feel that marriage is a life-time affair and not something not happy then don't want. so to me, that's a very serious word and if going to mention that, better think thrice cos the min the word is spoken, u got to bear the consequences (whether positive or negative) that will come from it.
Jam,
If no children - then yes.i will ask for divorce, by getting a PI and apply on single side..
If hv children - maybe i will close 1 eye and still i will confront him, that i am giving him one more chance, if he treasure the family, he had give that slut up... if not, the whole family will be ruin by him. Cant blame me for being heng xin.
If no children - then yes.i will ask for divorce, by getting a PI and apply on single side..
If hv children - maybe i will close 1 eye and still i will confront him, that i am giving him one more chance, if he treasure the family, he had give that slut up... if not, the whole family will be ruin by him. Cant blame me for being heng xin.
jenn, is lucky dat u leave him...if not married liow even worst!!
my mom ah bei fren few of them got mistress leh...din their spouse dunno loh...so my mom say dun understand y ah ni old liow still wan to fool ard....children all grown up liow later ppl noe oso pai sei....
my mom ah bei fren few of them got mistress leh...din their spouse dunno loh...so my mom say dun understand y ah ni old liow still wan to fool ard....children all grown up liow later ppl noe oso pai sei....
jenn, for me the first time i knew my ex was cheating, i also refused to leave him even though all my friends rallied around me to leave him but too scared to be alone again. but after it went on for a while, i feel that no point liao so i suggested to split without confiding in anyone and i just drop the news to my family and friends after few days later.
i got a fren...she betrayed her bf twice...1st time her bf 4give her but 2nd time her bf give her chance again but then she choose the guy who she noe at disco & ended her realtionship.. somemore dat time she & her bf already go & apply flat liow & pay $5k deposit...but the guy din request her to share the costs loh..when she wif the disco guy not even a mth dat guy 2 timer...so it is her reputation???
jam,
for me, if no kids, i will sure divorce with him.
if got kids, i will give him one more chance, but will be more aware of his movements in case, he cheat on me again, at least i can protect myself and my kids.
think i mention before that one of my coll is have affair.
now the wife and his 2 boys (age 8 and 10) also knows.
wife cry everyday and beg him to leave the women (wife is not a "simple" woman, she is a dealer), younger son ask tell him that if my coll leave the family, he will go and die.
still my stupid and heartless coll, say that he will not leave the woman and said that he had "married" the women in front of the "guan yin".
now he seems like so ya ya, go ard telling pll that now he got 2 women after him and always tell us how the women (age 26 and coll age 46) "satisfied his needs in BED.
WAH LAO.... feel like giving him 2 tight slap loh.
and best the women had already "took" almost $20k from my coll and my coll can say that she urgently need the $$$ to save life!!!
LAME right!!!!
for me, if no kids, i will sure divorce with him.
if got kids, i will give him one more chance, but will be more aware of his movements in case, he cheat on me again, at least i can protect myself and my kids.
think i mention before that one of my coll is have affair.
now the wife and his 2 boys (age 8 and 10) also knows.
wife cry everyday and beg him to leave the women (wife is not a "simple" woman, she is a dealer), younger son ask tell him that if my coll leave the family, he will go and die.
still my stupid and heartless coll, say that he will not leave the woman and said that he had "married" the women in front of the "guan yin".
now he seems like so ya ya, go ard telling pll that now he got 2 women after him and always tell us how the women (age 26 and coll age 46) "satisfied his needs in BED.
WAH LAO.... feel like giving him 2 tight slap loh.
and best the women had already "took" almost $20k from my coll and my coll can say that she urgently need the $$$ to save life!!!
LAME right!!!!
