hi Smilemelody,
thks for the adv on bridesmaid gifts. I also went fortune-teller (or whatever it is they're called) to choose dates. You have to give him birthdates of bride + groom + both sets of parents. Also have to give birthtime for bride+groom. If you're giving him 'English' dates, must specify so he can convert for you. What I did was give him details on the phone then 1 wk later meet up for consultation when he give more details like what's the timing to follow...
I quite heng la. My bday is one of the lucky dates. I originally already intended to choose that date but HIS PARENTS (sigh! I tell u, the amt of trouble they cause me) wanted this, wanted that... Anyway, good luck with yours! Oh ya, you can also specify if you want wkend dates only.