thanks gals...mi ok liao...no more making wanton...
kit: think all couples will have tiff...hubby oso nags at me, putting things here and there...even commented on my wardrobe...but that's my own space, so however messy it is, it's my mess. for shared spaces, then we compromise, trying to adjust to each other's habits.
give yourself time, talk it thru. am sure you'll work something out with your hubby.