hmm.... i think sometimes, views and lifestyle just differ? in school, we meet up at least 6 hours each day so different... when working, we are more exposed to different things and preferences and lifestyle will change.... 2 of the 3 are now good buddies cos their bfs are also buddies.... the other, also no news so far. sometimes, bf do play role i think. previously one of them is closer to me cos my cousin was her bf then but after they broke up, things just change and now her bf is buddy of another gal so now become buddy also lor and maybe they stay same area so meet up also easier.... anyway, like u say, see things open lor.... it's quality friends that makes life more meaningful....