Hi Lee Ann, I happens to come to this forum.. I have a story to tell U..
Once upon a time, there was a king. The king liked one of his followers
very much because he was very wise and always gave very useful advice.
Therefore the king took him along wherever he went. One day, the king was
bitten by a dog, the finger was injured and the wound was getting worse.
He asked the follower if that was a bad sign. The follower said, Good or
bad, hard to say'. In the end, the finger of the king was too bad that had
to be cut. The king asked the follower again if that was a bad sign.
Again, the follower gave the same answer, 'Good or bad, hard to say'. The
king became very angry and sent the follower to prison.
One day, the king went hunting in the jungle. He got excited when he was
on the chase of a deer. Deeper and deeper he went inside the jungle. In
the end he found himself lost in the jungle. To make thing worse, he got
captured by the native people lived inside the jungle. They wanted to
sacrifice him to their god. But when they noticed that the king had one
finger short, they released him immediately as he was not a perfect man
anymore and not suitable for sacrifice. The king managed to get back to
his palace after all. And he finally understood the follower's wise quote,
'Good or bad, hard to say'. If he hadn't lost one finger, he could have
been killed by the native people. He ordered to release the follower, and
apologized to him. But to the king's amazement, the follower was not mad
at him at all. Instead, the follower said, 'It wasn't a bad thing that you
locked me up.' Why? Because if the king hadn't locked the follower up, he
would have brought the follower along to the jungle. If the native found
that the king was not suitable, they would have used the follower. Again,
the quote 'Good or bad, hard to say' stands.
*_*_*_*_*_*_*_*_*_*_*_*_* >> > >> > The moral of the story - >> > >> >
Everything that happens in this world, there is no absolute good or bad.
Sometimes good things turned out to be bad things eventually, while bad
things become a gain.
Whatever good things that happen to you, enjoy it, but don't have to hold
too tight to it, treat it as a surprise in your life. Whatever bad things
that happen to you, don't have to feel too sad or despair, in the end, it
might not be a total bad thing after all.
If one can understand this, he or she will find life much easier. A
person is only complete when he has a true friend to understand him, to
share all his passions and sorrows with, and to stand by him throughout
his life... U have the whole group of Singapore Brides here supporting you.
Not easy but me and HB are learning
) 'an quan qi jian.....best is to engaged a separate MUA.
