May: don't worry lah. i won't be offended so easily. all of you gals are just trying to be helpful by giving me your opinions. i more than happy, will not be unhappy. it helps to know that people care lor. MIL and SIL issues? i haven't gone to that topic before. really that bad huh? aiyoh, why like that. sigh. i usually just access this topic lor. see when free i will pop by. things aren't exactly rosy at home too so going home to de-stress is also not such an appealing idea. of course i do agree that it's definitely better than staying there and getting in trouble with my SIL and MIL. will speak to hubby about it. keep you updated. : ) According to dats given by Shook, seems like Qing Ming is about 10days, starts on 5 Apr, end on 15 Apr. distribute card by end of this month? tough. we haven't settle guest list yet. but same as you, i broadcasting actual date of wedding in apr. now too early. How was your PS? When can see pics? must share, very excited! Know what you mean about spending for PS. I spent alot for mani,pedi and body massage and scrub! Very broke after that. hahaha!
Cat: i worry too. My MIL says she needs more tables and this is even before she started counting the actual people she is going to invite. worry about the money part. if keep increasing table numbers we will run into big problem of paying lor. sigh.
Pausini: all of you so nice. i want to weep already. know what you mean. i trying to get out of the way. i need to brush up my social skills. i am that kind that don't know how to sweet talk. i just say what comes to my mind and i always make a stand ie either i like or don't like. i don't like to sit on the fence. think very lose out when it comes to this because SIL very good with words. i just blurt out my thoughts. dumb but very difficult to change. plus i am that kind who can don't talk for days, can just read and live in my own world but SIL very socialable, everything also consult MIL. i just like to be left alone and i can make my own decisions. cannot imagine everything also consult MIL, it's like you have no opinion/mind of your own! but that's why my MIL likes about her!!!!!! Horrors when i heard about it! MIL says, SIL respects her and keep her updated on everything in her life. my gosh! i thought women nowadays are more independent already. i agree with Shook, it's the smile that steals the night. we try our best to change our size but we cannot never change that stunning smile. it's usually the way the bride carrys herself on that day that is most important. compared to those in states we consider quite ok size already. that's how i console myself because when i bought those bridal magazines from states, the brides are mostly size 14 and above and they still look as stunning and regal in those gown. dont' worry and be sad. looks are secondary, what is important is we are all happy yeah!
Shook: Thanks, i got the file already. As for printing of cards, as long as you are happy, just do it. not sure about printer being able to print purple words but if you keen can check out and see how much lor. you using laser colour jet? if not must be careful. last time my colleague did that, wasted alot of paper and ink she said because even sneeze also smudge ink. : ) make sure dry hands yeah.
Kare2711: thanks, trying my best to be sincere. but can tell you very tough especially after i try my very best still hear comments that she like her better and SIL is better in this and that. tough road. yup you are right. FH also say as long as he loves me, don't care and think so much. so sweet hor. : ) heehee! you also got a tough job ahead especially already with 3 infront of you to set standards. but jia you! we support you. agree with you, just be ourselves, cannot never make everyone happy.
Maya: i thought you mia. so long no see you in forum. As for your FH, all guys are like that. my FH also bocup. be very busy flying here and there. i try my best to do what i can. when he comes back in apr, i waiting to see him scramble abit lor. hahaha! very wicked hor. what to do, keep telling him not much time left but they all feel the same, no need to worry and hurry, still got time. so i let him take his own sweet time lor. no use to be angry and then quarrel mah. : ) you take care of health yeah. if can then one of these sundays go for massage? very relaxing, must pamper yourself.