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You seem to be a pretty balance guy, trust your instinct. The kind of demands and places they are meetings for work does not seem right, unless she is in a very unique industry, entertainment, etc If you bring these up, telling her about how you felt, if she understand where you are coming from...

Fighting for his peace... perhaps it is true, the only way to gain peace in an ideology or territorial war is the fight and eliminate the enemy but in divorce, I am less certain. Parties concerned either end it amicably like yours Haiz or slung it out in court. Even in the later, legal counsels...

Hi there, you mentioned about counseling, has that help. Have both of you found the root cause of your relationship? Is it money matter? or she has found someone else? She is distracted and dislike doing house chords? In an ideal situation, children need both their parents. Have two heads...

Hi Spy, agree with you its every (perhaps many) women dream is to have a simple happy, loving family. I find you incredibly patient, waiting for him for 5 hours to show up... I can understand you are upset and rightly so and he could turn around and have you felt bad about the whole situation...

Hmmm not judging but a little confuse, has your BF file for writ for divorce on the ground of adultery? or he is merely living apart from his legal spouse since he uncover her adulterous behavior? Important to clarify that. If is is the latter, then you are the third party. Don't worry about she...

Supernova, you either love him so much or truly believe he can change for the better. If you indeed love him or believe he can change for the better, ask him to get professional help for his inclination to stray, may be psychological... not an expert here, but is an option to consider. Another...

A1915 looks like you have made up your mind to leave everything behind and seek your new chapter of your life... Despite what you wrote, 'he is not a bad person but difficult to live with...' I have sure you have your reasons, and for these reasons, you think it is better for you to move on. He...

There is no absolute. There is no right or wrong way, every situation though similar with many common traits but is different, individuals involved are different, different personalities, believes, values, temperaments... What's right? What's wrong? What's best lies with both party involved...

Hi Novembermountain, good to read that you are leraning to let go and finding ways to deal with your emotions. Remember this is the first step, there will be times things get 'difficult', don't be afraid to reach out. Talk it out, share your thoughts and emotion, it is part of the healing...

Agree with Miloice, having children is your plan with your partner and its your life ultimately. Believe me having a child of your own will not difficult for most, but the challenge is in the upbringing and the responsibility towards the child over our life time. Only when you and your partner...

加油.. it's painful, it's scary because we all don't want to be alone. But you are not alone. This forum is a good example, you have real people reading and share their thought. As time passes, you will heal, but you can help by focusing on doing something you enjoy with your son. He too has...

If you think the division is unfair, then appeal the decision. Like any negotiation, we need to know what you want to get out of it, what you can accept. Lawyers will NOT think for you, the just take your instruction most of the time. Fair or not fair, you know best, but what fair to you may not...

Novembermountain, you may be right, he may love you as much, and you are the best judge of the relationship. Letting him go is a noble act, sacrificing your love for his 'happiness'... as the consequent you are suffering, because you are not ready to let him go. Sound about right? But, he is...

We are all emotional being, as logical as we all claimed or wanted to be, we succumbed to emotional needs all too often. Nothing wrong with it, we all need to be emotionally connected with someone... Novembermountain, perhaps lacking of emotional connection at home, felt connected with some at...

Yes life precious and dead does not solve any problem, I agree 100%. But there can be situation in life when all the chips are down, wherever you turn to, life looks bleak.... Posting here is a good first step to seek help, get opinion, better still if you can confide in someone you know and...