Hi peeps,
Does anyone have any experience with post nuptials agreement? Would be very glad if you can give me some advice after reading my story.
I think I made a bad decision in July. I married my boyfriend of 3 years. The 1st yr was blissful like any other relationship until one day I decided to check my boyfriend's phone. Turns out he was sex-texting/taunting his ex and he had visited some sleazy ktv parlour. It took awhile to work things out but I decided to give him another chance. And another chance and more chances in the next 2 years to come. Turns out 2 more times I check his phone or laptop, there were always something new and heartbreaking. Msging girls on craiglists, adult friend finder etc. What a rotten egg, yet I still chose to forgive him each.. stupidly I must say.
In Dec last year, I made the decision to give it a clean break and I stayed cleared of him for a month. But long story short, he broke thru my defenses by getting his parents to plead on his behalf. And he promised to be a better man (I can't believe I fell for that -__-") and proposed.
So now, I'm married for just 2 months. And there again, I found him chatting with a girl on Yahoo Msger. Nothing sleazy. Yet.
I'm no longer heartbroken. But I'm so mad with myself for being so stupid. GRRRRRR... And the worst part, is I can't divorce yet!!!
Now can someone tell me if I can make him sign a post-nup stating 75% of our HDB sales proceeds & assets will go to me if I ever find him doing similar stuff again?? Enforceable in Singapore? Yes, I do plan to go to a proper lawyer.
Ok. And yes, please slap me awake.
Thanks in advance *sigh*
Does anyone have any experience with post nuptials agreement? Would be very glad if you can give me some advice after reading my story.
I think I made a bad decision in July. I married my boyfriend of 3 years. The 1st yr was blissful like any other relationship until one day I decided to check my boyfriend's phone. Turns out he was sex-texting/taunting his ex and he had visited some sleazy ktv parlour. It took awhile to work things out but I decided to give him another chance. And another chance and more chances in the next 2 years to come. Turns out 2 more times I check his phone or laptop, there were always something new and heartbreaking. Msging girls on craiglists, adult friend finder etc. What a rotten egg, yet I still chose to forgive him each.. stupidly I must say.
In Dec last year, I made the decision to give it a clean break and I stayed cleared of him for a month. But long story short, he broke thru my defenses by getting his parents to plead on his behalf. And he promised to be a better man (I can't believe I fell for that -__-") and proposed.
So now, I'm married for just 2 months. And there again, I found him chatting with a girl on Yahoo Msger. Nothing sleazy. Yet.
I'm no longer heartbroken. But I'm so mad with myself for being so stupid. GRRRRRR... And the worst part, is I can't divorce yet!!!
Now can someone tell me if I can make him sign a post-nup stating 75% of our HDB sales proceeds & assets will go to me if I ever find him doing similar stuff again?? Enforceable in Singapore? Yes, I do plan to go to a proper lawyer.
Ok. And yes, please slap me awake.
Thanks in advance *sigh*
