You cannot trust men nowadays.=(

I'm not getting back what i said. you see yourself in my ex-boyfriend. You see in me the woman you left for your 'ex' wife. You think/feel that the woman doesn't love you because she doesn't trust you. just as i left my ex-boyfriend because he went back to his wife and i don't trust him anymore. If you love the girl you left behind you will not leave her, you will pursue her to have her trust back. There are other options where you can help your 'ex' wife without giving up the new love. with what you share, I can almost believe that you and him are the same person. but thingking about it thoroughly, you were not the same person. my guy is subtle, and sensitive despite the heartache he's been through, my man has empathy and open minded and will not push his opinion with others.

to answer your last question: Yes, i understand what is the love im searching for. I can continue loving the person even without being with the person. I can't stop him from doing what he wants with his life but love doesn't mean to tolerate everything. I'm only human. i have my limitations. If my love wants to prove he is trustworthy then leaving me and going back to 'ex' wife doesn't look like he is making an effort. it takes two to tango.

though i find your love pure and admirable to your 'ex' wife, you have decided to move on thus gain a new love. your priority then should be with the new love.

then again, i cannot judge you based on few post. You have your own opinion as i have mine. this is a forum anyway, we are supposed to have different opinion else forum wouldn't have been created.
 


ms asia, haven't u realized what we have been advising you about? Scope will go on and on. If you can appreciate what he is saying, good... carry on. Else, don't bother.
 
I already realized that Milo, that's why i mention my ex is not someone who will push his opinion to others. I'm still enjoying his thoughts though... so far..
 
ok. enjoy!
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Hi Ms Asia,

Ex-wife? LOL~ I do not see myself in your ex-boyfriend. I said already, it's an IF. If he loves you or if he doesn't. And you have to choose to assess with your best ability. Which is, if he does love you I suggest you should fight for it.

It's all in your interest because...

Assuming today we talked, but your feel for him lingers. Then someone woos you, you married only to find tomorrow that he has annulled, then what will happen if you still feel for him and he feels for you?

Will you just tell me... You will concentrate on the new guy? LOL~ But once you are married, the initial excitment mostly fade, then he's still there... assuming he is the One for you...

Complications.

I do not push opinions to you. Experience tells me that 99.9% women will never change course. My interest is only in how you respond and in the future if you will remember what I said when you are encountering problems. It could come in handy. LOL~

Sigh... many people initially were disturbed by mine being frank, and many of course asked later: How do I know in advance?

Anyway, given your current thinking ability... would you like take to try this quiz:
http://www.singaporebrides.com/forumboard/messages/5/1436913.html?1276236948

Your realization may not be so right, I am more interested to see or spot someone who can rationalized a discussion. There was one smarter girl here. In fact, I wish there were more.

Contrary to many girls' belief that I wasn't serious, I was and am a very serious lover. Which is why perhaps I have a rather quality-controlled situation. I read the girls or women...

I have to leave that woman to come back to tend to this woman who would need me more. So sad, she doesn't trust me, and went on to break contact with me. I did tell her to wait for me for 2 years... Hmmm... She was only this little bit away from becoming Mrs Scope_guy. LOL~

Dear Ms Asia, love takes two hands to clap. If she wasn't so 'smart', I'd be already going back to her since my estimation for the current woman I am taking care of is about 2 years before she'd wreck havoc... Totally destructive...

I am afraid that I won't work to gain the trust back, because she is the one who ignores me; and I ALWAYS let women makes the choice... and they have to bear the consequence. In fact, I never gave women more than one chance to prove themselves worthy. There is a good reason for this.

You are still using 'Your Guy'. See?

Other than with one woman... I am actually more sensitive and subtle than you think you know in real life.

Pure and admirable... My love for women is always simple, and sincere. But all I get are disappointments so far. LOL~

Do you know the quiz link I have for you is a very Christian one? LOL~ Suits you. I am not a Christian anyway. I am a free-thinker.

Do you know why mortals cannot be God? In that quiz, your life is about 10,000 Romeos and yourself. In this world of yours, God is facing 10,001 souls, his children of which he shalt love them all...

But in the face of love and God... mortals... no matter their faith and love for heaven and God, or their pursue in love... they shalt have no problem in letting 9,999 Juliets be banished to Hades. LOL~

LOL~

Ms Asia, I said before. Love is like so simple, yet so difficult. But if you know what is love, you'd be able to handle the quiz... and you'd know how God loves you all; then you can be your own God... I simply change something so simple to something totally difficult to illustrate a divine point.

There is no Ifs no Buts, Ms Asia. Love is love. How you treat the man or woman who loves you and/or you love will decide how worthy you are for true love.

Some people said I am stupid... Why should I be living with infidelity?

But what is infidelity? I have no love for that jerk, nor I have any love for infidelity... My love is always for the women fated to cross my path. My love makes me accept the women's nosense until she or any insists to go to hell shalt I then release them.

This world can only be a better world if all the Juliets can stay alive in that quiz. It applies to your case as well. You are too bothered with irrelevant mortal labels and issues...

I told a woman whose husband is like having an affair with a Thai... If she loved her man and married him, isn't her fight to win her man back now? LOL~ Most forumers would suggest they divorce. How sad...

It makes it so fvcking simple when super beautiful China women come after local husbands, because local wives simply raise white flags and say bye bye... LOL~

And they called it love when they married. LOL~

What a fvcking big joke.

I don't care what those haters who come here with irrelevant posts telling you to beware of me. But hopefully you can think before like those many women who took God's little tests and failed. By the time they tried to think, it's war over. LOL~

Your last line is nice. This is indeed a forum. Don't waste my sliva. LOL~
 
I feel that it's not the right time to come criticize any person (man or woman) who is hurting. If people cannot feel compassion, then just pls go away. Yes, she may be naive and may be making sweeping generalizations but she is not harming or hurting anyone, is she? No one is obliged to give her any comfort or support, but it's not really the right time to rub salt on her wounds.
 
And what's your advise for the TS? fyi, its never to rub salt into wounds. TS is talking the exchange pretty well actually. Does TS need your kind of pointless remarks? humm... the right timing to respond to her is probably after she is not even reading the thread actively anymore like yours?
 
Hi Milo I have read your comments on the other threads here, and I respect your opinions. Let's not pick on words or show sarcasm ok? I bear no malice and its true that everyone is entitled to voice his/her opinions, but be tactful.
 
Its not abt sarcasm. Frankly, what purpose is your point at June 27, 2010 - 12:49 am?

Nothing offered to the TS whatsoever. You talk about tact when there isn't even a purpose of your post to begin with. If you are so concerned abt TS feelings, please channel it to helping her.

If you read how the exchange developed in the thread, you would see how its an interactive and positive exchange. Not needing to abide to the manner you would like it. And was it not the appropriate timing for the exchange?

I am Ok for having more empathy but no to the current context. TS is clearly having no issues but you coming in 10 days after it has been inactive to comment on how the exchange should have went. For what? Kind of voicing out for the sake of doing so.
 
jy: define sarcasm

this is an open forum, if one only wants to hear all the nice words, he/she probably shldn't be here.
 
milo and thomas

yes, pls go away. this is a thread for bashing and blaming men. cannot read the title meh?
 
vios, not true. TS herself acknowledged and corrected that the title was inappropriate. She was clearly in the right mind, receptive to comments and reacting positively about it.

June 16, 2010 - 4:59 pm:
i stand corrected. I should have think more of an appropriate title.
 
well milo, this thread is not only for TS even though she is the creator...

it's also meant for other women who find a need to spread compassion and empathy more than anything else to the same gender.

so should we men just remain silent and nod our heads like little children.
 
Online men cannot be trusted!!! Dating online men is perilous and insane. All sorts of cranky people there.

I ever went on blind date with online men years ago, they are all weirdos, secretive, prevaricate when I question about their lifestyle,apparently not sincere, and some even ask me to be their girlfriend after few dates only, they have something up their sleeves.

But not all online men are cheats, I have friends who got married with men they met online.
But most of the online men come with an agenda if they are very desperate to date girls out, like for instance, they had a lengthy chat with a girl once and ask her out, those are the desperate ones looking for fling.
 
silly folks swing from one extreme of gullibility to the other extreme of disillusionment when what they should have done is to exercise good judgment.

i think it was reagan who said, trust but verify.
 
Galileo,

am i to assume the gus and cheats and the gals are all innocently and sincerely looking for long lasting relationships online? i think meg ryan should be hanged...

wonder what the women are doing in forums obviously meant as a hunting ground for sexual grooming.
 
Galileo, no one has ever said trust anyone blindly. Whether the people you meet are from online or not, you are supposed to exercise reasonable caution.
 
Many guys are cheated by woman also.

They losed their money, time, and his family until it's too late.

it's life. the internet bf of yours just wanna have some fun outside his warm house. and you happened to be the fun one.

you should know one man's meat another man's poison. and if you want to punish him by telling his wife and everyone he known please feel free to do so. you should be able to get his address, where he work and his friends etc etc when you are with him.

Well internet is full of fantasy. it's time to move on. don't go for internet guys next time.
 
My ex-gf cheated me of my virginity. She said she loved me but she bluff me. All because she thought it would make her skin look nicer.

Oh yes.
 
u can't get cheated of something that has little or no value...

she's must have developed bad rashes from that episode.
 
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