What is the biggest regret NOT doing throughout your entire wedding?
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rabber
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Haha... I don't consider myself fat. But I'm definitely not the skinny type and cannot diet. I don't want to and I consider myself healthy. But I wish my arms are slimmer for phototaking.
Hehe... how to slim them down? Don't think I can do it in time for my photoshoot in 1 month's time.
Hehe... how to slim them down? Don't think I can do it in time for my photoshoot in 1 month's time.
simplyblack
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Good points girls! I have problems with my arms too... Have always had from my teenage years. But at the end of the day, we can only try out best, tone up but the shape (pear, hourglass, etc) will not change. It's better to accept ourselves as we are and feel beautiful and happy.
I guess my regret will be not having a garden wedding. But I've made a conscious choice to opt for traditional dinner, so regret is a pretty strong word...
I guess my regret will be not having a garden wedding. But I've made a conscious choice to opt for traditional dinner, so regret is a pretty strong word...
lemonzil
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simplyblack: totally agree. we need to accept ourselves for who we are. confidence is the key to make us shine! 
yeah, regret is pretty strong. i would say, i tried my best. so.. really nothing to regret about. perhaps... to say.. if there were more resources, i would have done many other stuff.
yeah, regret is pretty strong. i would say, i tried my best. so.. really nothing to regret about. perhaps... to say.. if there were more resources, i would have done many other stuff.
superberrylove
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Hmmm... for me, the biggest regret might be not hiring a wedding planner as I am based overseas. I had friends who promised to help but didnt really deliver so I was scrambling around on my own overseas, trying to do all that was delegated.
Also, maybe be very specific about what you want from your xiong di jie meis on the day itself. they did do work, most of them, but my MOH spent most, if not all of her time sitting around with her boyfriend instead of helping out, and she did not really assist me on the day itself.
and of course, wish i had more time to hit the gym but looking back at how much I achieved on my own for the wedding prep, i am happy though i may not have looked my best but i know i did everything i could.
just make sure that you are happy with all the decisions you have made in the entire process. The day will go by so quickly that you will remember the days prepping for it more than the actual day! (thats what photos and videos are for. lol)
This is the start of your lives together and even if there are regrets, it isnt going to matter. why? that 'regret' will just be nothing but a teeny tiny little smudge in your future as hubby n wife!
Also, maybe be very specific about what you want from your xiong di jie meis on the day itself. they did do work, most of them, but my MOH spent most, if not all of her time sitting around with her boyfriend instead of helping out, and she did not really assist me on the day itself.
and of course, wish i had more time to hit the gym but looking back at how much I achieved on my own for the wedding prep, i am happy though i may not have looked my best but i know i did everything i could.
just make sure that you are happy with all the decisions you have made in the entire process. The day will go by so quickly that you will remember the days prepping for it more than the actual day! (thats what photos and videos are for. lol)
This is the start of your lives together and even if there are regrets, it isnt going to matter. why? that 'regret' will just be nothing but a teeny tiny little smudge in your future as hubby n wife!
superberrylove
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why? that 'regret' will just be nothing but a teeny tiny little smudge in your future as hubby n wife!
thanks ginger888!