Hi dear all, I had discussed wif my bf regarding our ROM, if nothing goes wrong, it will be on MAY 2010. Therefore, i would wanna book the outdoor location next yr (2009)between March to June. (Is it too early ah?)
Er.. my motive to post this thread is actually to ask few ques which i had been thinking n thinking n dun understand, hope all brides hu know, will enlighten me...
QUESTIONSSSS:
1. If i'm looking for a perfect veune and after making call to ask them about e package, etc.. den if it sounds reasonable of cuzi would very much like to visit the location, den i guess there will be someone maybe a co-ordinator to explain stuff to me n bf. In this situation, if i still wanna consider (still have few choices to check b4 i make decision) how can i push back (not reject e offer) juz sae i will consider? As in, how should i tell her a proper reply?
2. For ROM, i understand most of e package r determined by per pax. If i can't confirm e actual no. of person attending, till e day itself, how many pax should i put on reserve? And eg. max i will invite 50 guests for ROM, but only 30 say will come, den if they prepare 50 pax de food how ah? And another round, if 30 people confirm with me wif their attendance, but end up 40 people come, e food not enough? (Er.. hope u all understand wad i'm trying to say.) They will charge how many people in e 2 situation?
3. How much is consider as expensive for ROM package. Take e price for per pax. And max how much u willing to pay for per pax? Cuz i would like to have garden or beach ROM, den max 50 pax.
4. Does all veune that provides ROM package/ buffet includes deco, as in we have to pay for extra for all deco? Or they will for sure provide the deco? And do we need to pay for rental for the location we book? Or juz pay e food for the no. of people, service charge, etc....
5. If during ROM i haven sign up wif any BS other den freelance MUA n PG, who else i need to engage?
6. For GDL, PJ, An Chuang etc... are to be done after ROM, but b4 AD right? Any other tradition things to be done for a teochew FHB and Canto Bride? Seriously need help on this..
7. How long did you all take to plan for when to pass e GDL, PJ and when to do An Chuang? Must we select a good date to do all e tradition stuff?
8. Did anyone choose their ROM date or AD date without the help of TONGSHU? As my fhb n me wants e ROM to be on our anni,therefore we do not wish to have ani negative comments to affect our decision.
9. How long did all brides take to plan their ROM? After that, how long did it takes u to plan AD preparations?
**sorry for the real long ques, but it means alot to my understanding... TIA.
Er.. my motive to post this thread is actually to ask few ques which i had been thinking n thinking n dun understand, hope all brides hu know, will enlighten me...
QUESTIONSSSS:
1. If i'm looking for a perfect veune and after making call to ask them about e package, etc.. den if it sounds reasonable of cuzi would very much like to visit the location, den i guess there will be someone maybe a co-ordinator to explain stuff to me n bf. In this situation, if i still wanna consider (still have few choices to check b4 i make decision) how can i push back (not reject e offer) juz sae i will consider? As in, how should i tell her a proper reply?
2. For ROM, i understand most of e package r determined by per pax. If i can't confirm e actual no. of person attending, till e day itself, how many pax should i put on reserve? And eg. max i will invite 50 guests for ROM, but only 30 say will come, den if they prepare 50 pax de food how ah? And another round, if 30 people confirm with me wif their attendance, but end up 40 people come, e food not enough? (Er.. hope u all understand wad i'm trying to say.) They will charge how many people in e 2 situation?
3. How much is consider as expensive for ROM package. Take e price for per pax. And max how much u willing to pay for per pax? Cuz i would like to have garden or beach ROM, den max 50 pax.
4. Does all veune that provides ROM package/ buffet includes deco, as in we have to pay for extra for all deco? Or they will for sure provide the deco? And do we need to pay for rental for the location we book? Or juz pay e food for the no. of people, service charge, etc....
5. If during ROM i haven sign up wif any BS other den freelance MUA n PG, who else i need to engage?
6. For GDL, PJ, An Chuang etc... are to be done after ROM, but b4 AD right? Any other tradition things to be done for a teochew FHB and Canto Bride? Seriously need help on this..
7. How long did you all take to plan for when to pass e GDL, PJ and when to do An Chuang? Must we select a good date to do all e tradition stuff?
8. Did anyone choose their ROM date or AD date without the help of TONGSHU? As my fhb n me wants e ROM to be on our anni,therefore we do not wish to have ani negative comments to affect our decision.
9. How long did all brides take to plan their ROM? After that, how long did it takes u to plan AD preparations?
**sorry for the real long ques, but it means alot to my understanding... TIA.
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