u want, i can recommend. and get first appt free. but i tell u first how hard it is to pin infidelity on a cheating husband, and yes, i know the anger and how u want to drag her to court too. i tried that route before. u can do it only if u have money to blow.
because when u want to name her as the co-respondent, u have to hire a registered PI to gather evidence. in singapore, u can only charge infidelity when there is proof of intercourse.
yes, it's tough proving that, isn't it, unless u have pics of them screwing. so u need money to pay PI who will watch them and PIs charge per hour. without it, the lawyer will tell u to just go for irreconcilable behaviour.
trust me, if infidelity were that easy to pin, i'd have done it. i've wasted money too, because despite knowing their holiday plans, my PI staked out but they changed plans.
so i suggest see what u can salvage. get supporting evidence that u have, forget about pinning the woman unless u are damn sure they gonna stay overnight at some hotel together.
if u still want recommendation, email me and i give u a couple of people. but make sure u are very ready. even going to the lawyer and laying out your reasons for wanting a divorce will hurt u real bad.
be strong, my friend...