RE: Need Some advise ....

Yes I read, I just didn't want to insult you by stating here that you complain about a half eaten dinner and you have sex only once a month or was it twice a month?

You really don't need to convince me that u love ur marriage and ur job. You just need to convince yourself.
 


U r mistaken. I'm not trying to convince u. In case ur memory is failing, u were the one who asked how I managed a blissful marriage. Now I know u didn't mean what u asked. Ur qns is probably an attempt to mock.
 
Anyway u guys really need to moderate ur expectations abt marriage lAll those things I posted here are minor squabbles that we have overcome. The weekly (not once a month) sex is not a marital problem for us but a problem to conceive. U sureu read and really understood them?
 
denise,

learn to stand alone n dun keep dragging Others in, to stand with u. i said i'm abv YOU, not others. your insecurities and lack of confidence makes u need to Do That, doesn't it?

i'm assuming your english have a certain standard, thus the flaws when u use 'we' and reply me as a 'group' rather than an individual - shows exactly what I AM trying to cultivate in u.

your job may be to cultivate, but it doesn't mean u're good at it... neither does it mean u cultivate yourself. it simply means your job is to cultivate. Again, u need to lend from a 3rd party source like your profession - in order to put yourself in good light. Weak.

my ability to dissect and expose your subconscious, should be pretty evident of my abilities to read and deal with pple in Real Life. my confidence in telling u in your face without the need to employ 'we' nor 'we men' nor any other associtations - tells u that i function pretty much in positions of True authority n capability, and not appointed authority.

sadly, u are unable to read these becos the only way u can reconcile to yourself is to brush me off as an MCP or any other desperate name u can conjure. not forgetting how u like to drag my wife n family into arguments when u run out of ideas, which shows your lack of ethics.

i rem u have issues with profanities, i also realise that u are rude without using profanities... whilst i am kind despite my profanities.

u are weak, u have issues, and u should indeed self-reflect.

i am the best thing that happened to u, but i must admit the timing may not be the best. u will likely thank me in your heart one day... just not today.
 
Denise, it's good friday. Time is better spend with yr husband, do markings or preparing mid yr
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Oh...wasn't it obvious I wasn't genuinely enquiring after ur marital bliss? I was at first convinced that you had it all, until u keep repeating it over and over.

Who is Denise, without her wonderful husband, without her job, without her numerous rs experience?
 
"Oh...wasn't it obvious I wasn't genuinely enquiring after ur marital bliss?"

It's people like you, Soisuka, that make this forum ugly. You love to speak in riddles, be sarcastic instead of speaking your mind. Tells very much about your character.

Chocolate, you're right. It's good Friday and I am convinced Soisuka is like what she said - single and bored- and that's why she's here to find fault with others and be sarcastic. Not very sure a person like Powder if he's having some rough times in his life too that he's being so cynical (dragon pointed this out not me - ya ya borrowing strength here again, mr powder).

I don't do marking anymore, choc, nor do I need to prepare for exams. Anyway I was spending quality time with my hubby all this time while writing here. He was poking fun of some characters here as he read those messages and told me, "darling, let them be...we need this type of people in the world so that we lead a better life while they're still in their own 'world'" Anyway, this is a super long weekend for me as I don't have to work on mon, tues and wed
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)) Lots of time for argument but I don't argue for the sake of arguing - not that bo liao.

"i am the best thing that happened to u, but i must admit the timing may not be the best. u will likely thank me in your heart one day... just not today."

eeewww, I really was right about you being too full of yourself. You were soooo sure you were the best thing that happened to me - puke puke puke. Period.
 
funny, dragon becomes a source of credibiity now...

and the only way to reconcile yourself is to keep lying to yourself tat i have problems and going thru rough patches.

dun drag your hubby into this. his comments are worthless when he hasn't actually been in the forum engaging pple, and not when he is getting his info from u.

u really need to add alot of support behind every post... til now u dun realise, do u?
 
I can be brutally honest if you want. I wasn't sure if you could take it since you also talk in riddle urself, hiding ur condescension and 'holier than thou', 'I'm better than you' mentality in ur politically correct speech. So I thot why not just talk to you like you talk to me.

You keep thinking that bcos you're married to a 'wonderful' husband, bcos ur a teacher, bcos u have had 'bad' rs, you're somehow one up above everybody else and have seen the 'light'.

When a man tells you he wants to leave you bcos he doesn't love you anymore, it doesn't make him a bad person, he just doesn't love you and you oughta appreciate his honesty instead of branding him a bad ass.

You always like to say things like 'people like you', are people like me less worthy than you? Are you saying people like you are just better? How are you different from someone who simply says I am better than you outloud? Aren't you speaking in riddles? Aren't you like me, making this forum ugly?

The bottomline is this: In this forum, the person I most dislike so far is YOU. I much prefer the crazy scope, rude powder, nice milo, sweet Albee, level headed sm....and many more.

Denise, YOU are the one who is full of yourself while pretending to be not.
 
It's ok. I've never expected u to like me here. My posts were never meant for that to happen. In fact I dun even think abt who I dun like in this forum and rank them. I'll still contribute where I can. U have fun being single and bored and post here to kill ur boredom.
 

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