Parents does not accept bf-husband to be

I think when it comes to falling in love.. parents won't be able to influence much.. so what is the point of parents trying too hard to influence - and worse, trying to stop?

The most important thing for parents is to try to support and give objective view.. Don't be too judgemental.. even if they fall or fail..let them be.. they will learn eventually..
 


ginger,

it is quite disheartening to hear that you were locked out like tat...Hope you are getting on fine now...it is definitely not easy to start all over again outside, not to mention all the stuff to be purchased again..In the meanwhile, will you still try to reconcile things between your parents and your husband?
 
yea.. agreed with sm.. children have their own life also. let them choose their own path and just hope that they wouldn't regret wat they have chosen.

even if they regretted, it's a lesson learnt.
 
Actually, parents are able to influence a great deal. But not control. Big diff here. The influence comes from all the yrs of educating and upbringing the kid. We are what we are today largely contributing by the exposure our environment provides. This is how parents can influence. What, they cannot do, is lead us by the nose against our wills.
 
ginger...it is really very sad that your parents are doing this to you...i am also preparing myself mentally for this day...

But I am like ggoldfish...I will tell my parents a few mths before i ROM...and i also told my bf we need to make sure our hse is fully renovated and ready for us to move in before we tell my parents our ROM date in case i got locked out...I really hope the best for you...
 
coral, ginger and ggoldfish

Please kindly include me in your conversation. I noticed that this thread is no longer active. Are your parents accepting your bf or husband?

My problem has just started month ago. Feel so distressed by my family's ridiculous remarks. Haih... My bf is treating me and my family very well. However, my family, included my brother are so demanding. And they are not understanding at all. Both my bf and I work so hard for our future and only have so

Sometimes I am not sure if I should continue in preparing wedding. I am being sandwich in between.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Back
Top