Need advice - husband has sex with other woman in the car


Wah...suddenly she gets all high and mighty liao...

Fio_fio...
We only react to nonsense with nonsense...

Just cos you can't even make any cow sense with your comments, don't assume the rest of us are stupid...

And when people challenge you on your comments, you can't even mount a proper defence of your opinions...
Instead, you chose to brush us off after we made fun of your comments...
So who's the one now who don't actually put thoughts into their comments?
That's your problem...
 
snowtear we dun work.

sm is a student and is still a student... he's those type who study and party all year round... he still gets by on pocket money...

powderful is an undeclared pimp, liviing off loans from his 6 gfrens whom he see each once a week. he owns 7 handphones and only borrows once a month, so not as bad as Other guys... he hopes to move on from 1k loans to 100k loans. he has been married 25 times in singapore alone.

powder is this dirty old man who goes on chatlines and tried to hook up unsuspecting 17yr-old girls by promising to love them and marry them. he occasionally steals from their wallet.

Men!
 
i think im slightly 'better'....

me and the few male generations before me live by the luxury wealths of our great-great-great-great-grand father's fortune, and the best thing is that i pretend to those gals that it's all mine...

those gals who believe it's my credits, actually think that im marrying them, for goodness' sake.

well, it's ninety-nine and still counting....
 
funny hor? some of them go all around and use 'we women' and make frens all over... but when we do it, they're off...

double-standards is obviously created for the fairer sex... men are openly biased... women will pretend they are not even if it's so darn obvious...
 
fio_fio,

since you have the guts to DECLARE in an earlier thread that "...(all)the men are happily out there having affairs...", then pls have the guts to Validate this claim. ie. how did you research? how did you conclude?

Otherwise, don't further embarrass yourself by commentating that there were Superficial statements by other forumers... cos' i believe yours is the ultimate feminist tag.

Or do you need to register, and come back again? Or maybe, seek help from other like-minded women who also think that (all) the men leave their wives suffering by having affairs all over the world?

Yes, im pissed. So?
 
Well powder, i'm all shagged out after my afternoon session.... damn, she actually said that she loves me.. how can i buzz her off?

hmm, where r u heading tonight with that 16.5 yr old gal who actually regards you as a sugar daddy?
 
wat im trying to say is.......lets b fair lah seriously.....men r not the only ones cheating can? so many women out there cheating on their husbands as well.....

in fact..there seems to be an increase in women committing adultery...
 
actually it's fine with me lah, i'm just having some pre-christmas fun... hehe. i guess it's impt to treat each case differently
 
wei powder....li bo ho seh ah...i go back at 5pm leh..where got half day?! boss not ard..many ppl not ard...i come n go as i like... :P
 
hahah, janie, you dont know powder's pattern. his working day ends late at night. to him, 5pm is considered early...hahaha
 
ya, hehe... if my guys leave at 5, we'll ask them to ask for half day leave... but just pulling their leg of cos... as long as work is done can leave at 3 also no problem...
 
hi all, i am new in this forum. I have a doubt n wish to hear your views on this. I have a bf whom is actually my first bf. We just got back together recently. He asked me back. Before i got back to him, i got an ex whom i only went steady with him for exactly 2mths.(address him as k). K and i just wanna try to forget our previous relationship (for me is my first bf and for K is his 2nd gf)so we went steady. Well, as gf and bf , we always have the tendency to have intimate acts together as we are no longer young gals or boys but adults. But both K and I after going steady for 2mths, we feel that both of us were not suitable so we broke up, then my first bf came to find me and asked me to go back to him. I did told him that i had a bf after he left me. He started to ask me if i did anything with that guy which is K. But i felt that it was not necessary or a must to tell him rite? Because i start a relationship only after he ended our relationship. and start to go out with him again only when i ended with K. I just told him nothing. Now my questions are: Is it necessary to tell your current bf what you had done with the previous bf ? Why? He was the one who gave up the relationship in the first place!! I accepted him back because i still feel love for him. Is it wrong for me to just keep the previous relationship in my mind? Can anyone tell me your views? But pls dun insult me though...
 
dun insult you . can ..

gan qing fan lan man .. so you rebound rebounding or wat ? you cant live alone in this world ?

you go along with K so that you can forget your pass relationship .. so should i say

K is lugi cos he has been treated like a duck.
K has earn cos for nth he get to eat up a ger ?

even worse.. my blood boil at 7am when you say you 2 have intimate acts becos you are no longer young gers and boys .. si mi logic is this .. ok . even you first day together have sex also not my problem . but when you know you are doing it to forget a past relationship you give this type of stupid reason... >.<

i think you better tell the other forumers why you break up with your virgin bf in the first place b4 they advice.. most probably something didnt work out and something should be rectify if wan to still continue together..

all the question you asked . i shall not ans .. i am just ranting here .. you can totally ignore my post .
 
piglet2fin,

You ask and I said no need to tell you bf about what you did with K. Why is there a need to tell K. How about your bf, perhaps in between he had many girls?

Once broke up, you are free to do what you want. And if you patch together, shouldnt be asking the questions we did in between.
 
hi piglet

why did your first bf break up with you at the first place? Correct me if I'm wrong, but from I read in your post, K is your rebound, and you are still bitter about your first bf for breaking up. And you make it sounds as if you are doinghim a favour for taking him back..

And for your question, i really think that it's how mature your bf and your relationship between him is since you didn't say much there. You don't have to tell him what happened if you are uncomfortable, you don't even have to tell him anything. Personally, my bf ask me things with my ex as well.. and i know things that he done with his ex as well.. (we talk about almost everything.. including his fantasties) but these are cool with us as they are the past, and we know that they are history.
 
Hi Piglet,

There is no moral obligation to update K on the details of the past that you had shared with another guy. It is afterall something personal. Just tell K that you would like to start afresh with him and the past should not affect both of you in anyway.

If he is mature enough, he should not be asking such questions. Most importantly, if he truly loves you, why should he be bothered by what you have done with others? He should instead concentrate on what he can do with you to make you happy from now on....

Just my two cents worth. Ultimately, the decision to tell or not tell...lies in your hands. Think hard. Once done, it is irreversible and may have great impact on your relationship.
 
I agree with vane.

Nvr let a man know u hv been intimate with another.

Some men cannot take it and will always bring it up in an arguement.
 
Opps, got the characters mixed up, but the main point is no need to share details of previous relationship with current partner....
 
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