Is pity or duty sex common among Singaporean couples?

[alexandra333]

Any singaporean wives willing to share how sex in their marriage has been reduced to sex out of obligation?

 

[life_is]

In the first place, don't get married if you are not going to have sex with your husband. By law, they are not allowed to go for prostitutes, nor allowed to have sexual relations with any other women. So they can only have sex with their one and only wife. If the wife chooses not to do so for a long period of time, I think we need to allow polygamy for all civil marriages.

 

[ooosh]

I think you should ask yourself this question why you have sex out of obligation...cos no one can take the obligation out of the statement except yourself.

 

[uglydude]

If you want to ensure regular sex from your partner...dun marry them in the first place...that's the only way you can control them...else once you marry them and the law is in their favor...they have a rite to say no and you are better off DIY in the toilet....

 

[Tan cutie]

but i thought sex is a part of it......... marriage is for love???

 

[tomasulu]

News flash: Duty <anything> is not only common but expected in a marriage.

 

[life_is]

If you want to ensure regular sex from your partner...dun marry them in the first place...that's the only way you can control them...else once you marry them and the law is in their favor...they have a rite to say no and you are better off DIY in the toilet....

Marriage is the end of all the good things in life for men. If only the law would be more balanced.

 

[sadman2009]

For all those wives who feel that having sex with their husbands is a duty ... Then please don't ... Coz when your husband make love with you that's because he loves you ( at least for most husbands). I'm thinking that if the husbands want they can always find alternatives outside... Not that they can't afford them... ( for most of the husbands) getting a sexy and good figure girl outside is not that difficult... And is easily affordable. But I think most husbands prefer to make love with their wives coz it's special.
So, please don't view it as an obligation or a duty... View it as a means of loving your husband....

 

[life_is]

For all those wives who feel that having sex with their husbands is a duty ... Then please don't ... Coz when your husband make love with you that's because he loves you ( at least for most husbands). I'm thinking that if the husbands want they can always find alternatives outside... Not that they can't afford them... ( for most of the husbands) getting a sexy and good figure girl outside is not that difficult... And is easily affordable. But I think most husbands prefer to make love with their wives coz it's special.
So, please don't view it as an obligation or a duty... View it as a means of loving your husband....

Sex with anyone other than the wife can be considered as unreasonable behaviour, which can lead to divorce. Once married, most men become vegetarian.