How is it that

[srsly]

one moment you think of your s.o as The One and want to be with forever and the next, you might think he/she's better off with someone else? it gets a bit confusing at times

 

[otelle]

Pardon me, what is s.o ?

 

[strawberry_love]

significant other

 

[alcifertoh]

When you do not know what you want.

 

[supergal]

you have inferiority complex? what makes you think your SO is better off with another person?

 

[gracelourdes]

agreed!! when u dun noe wat u want n when u live in ur own lala land?

 

[potatochip]

whether your s.o is better off with another person or you is for him/she to think about it. everybody has his/her pos side and neg side, if your s.o feel this way, i believe he/she will not choose to be with u liao...just love and take care of him/her and let his/her heart feel it and dun brood over this question

 

[leibit]

I get these thoughts too. Eg. when I think that my hb might be happier with some other gals who are more suitable for him, coz I am not those terribly wild and fun type, and I don't cook the type of Cantonese dishes he likes. I think and think so much that I really feel we are not suitable for each other, but are just together, simply because we chose to be together with each other in the first place. Confusing? I know there are other people out there more suitable to be with me than him, but then, so what?....I'll just continue to cook my japanese dishes and not his cantonese food......he has to get used to my taste? I also dunno.....

 

[saggitarian]

ya . like what potato chip says .. dun ever go confront this question and have an argument about it ..

someitmes for a guy or a gal .. is not what they need is important . is how much they can sacrufice for the ger they love that is impt .

jus be faithful and honour the love thruout the day can le .

 

[green_tranquility]

Guess it's due to low self esteem...

 

[sunshinepeach]

Stop comparing cos comparing will make u more unhappy.. Even if u are with the better 1.. there wld always who seem to better than him too.. there wld be no end... Be content and happy wif wat u have!