Thank you so much for getting back to me... Don have kids cos relationship/marriage is unstable tats how I feel n think cos of each other's behaviors.. Situation is whenever he gets real angry he can b violent n like using his strength to destroy things at home, don talk or think reasonably, keep saying to die, using vulgar words on me etc.. He is totally change to another person who don care bother anything n can b really dangerous to me n himself.. His anger characters attitudes r wat I cannot tolerate anymore. When he did s'thing wrong/not correct as he din think much he will still not take it in when I explain to him. Jus recently he help to clear stuffs at home to prepare for CNY n threw many things, as I got home I realized he threw away my stuffs w/o checking w me. Another most unacceptable reason he gave me was I don know wat I threw away.
The stuffs he threw away are my collectible carriers.. I spent many yrs effort to collect them. No matter wat items they r, it meant a lot to s'one although it may mean nothing/less value to u. So I talked to him expressing explaining my sadness my heart pain w/o yelling shouting or screaming which I did in d past n also jus cannot accept his reason he did not know wat he threw away n also w/o checking w me!! I really don know wat he was thinking! When u help pack s'one's stuffs n not sure of wat to do, have to check w tat person..
So he exploded w/o understanding realizing the value of d stuffs.. He did all tat I said above when he angry.. Now d collectible carriers is not of much issue but is his character attitude personality tat r a big matter. All these yrs when he gets angry he will jus explode n did all above..
I'm really v tired hopeless.. He did all these n today he jus told me to forget abt it. How in d world can I ever jus put it down.. All these yrs he reacted in tis behavior actions doesn't he realize n know tat it's hurting me??? How many more times must I go thru endure?? I'm v tired...
