Hi poseidon_gal, we only keep to the useful stuff. My mother got the following:
�tea set for the wedding tea ceremony
�beddings, pillows, bolsters, blankets, bed sheets, tied with red ribbons
�bedside lamps
�baby bathtub, potty, face washbasin (replaced w red packet)
�toothpaste and toothbrushes, mirror, comb,
�sewing basket with even numbered rolls of colourful thread, needles, pincushion, scissors, and sewing wax
�10 sets of new clothes and PJ in a suitcase for the bride
�two pairs of red bedroom slippers (replaced w red packet)
Hope this helps.