my friend say to each his/her own; buyers beware.
Friend not keen to wash dirty linen in public but advice to you all is if you can do it early, do so and get it done.
Do not take things for granted for once it is over, it is OVER. You cannot turn back the clock. Forum say so and so is good, great wonderful... you may be the unlucky one to experience the unfortuante.
Marriage is not just about ceremonies.
Buyers Beware and Good Luck.