Full of regrets............heartache and wanted to die Everyday

i hv lost my patience since beginning of this year when miko kept repeating and repeating her 'story'. it's like a broken down tape recorder -

play, rewind, forward, play ..
play, rewind, forward, play ..
play, rewind, forward, play ..
play, rewind, forward, play ..

i can empathise with her husband. he is wise to focus on his career than on this marriage. it's a burden to hv such personality as a spouse.

i find optimistic ppl very attractive. optimistic ppl are also those who hv gone thru the worst, survived, moved on and doing better. we learn and grow from every experience, every hardship. well, some chose to remain in that deep dark hole. it's a choice.

guess miko only wants to hear what she wants to hear. she is deaf to the rest. ATTENTION is what she has been seeking and still is.

powderful, i agree. she will come back with the same 'stories' next year. we wait ok.

sm, i want to shake her up long time ago liao. she is still in slumber... like Sleeping Beauty waiting for her prince to wake her up !! :P

erm vios, you call this the 'latino's heat' - full of fire? patience exhausted already. dont hv to be diplomatic with this type of ppl and give out treats. kekekek...... powderful hor??
 


hi friends,

Thanks for not giving up on me and thanks for still responding...

The blood for this 15 years relationship has been bleeding for the past 2 years, once it has stopped...I will pull out the bullet and let this heart for it stopped!!!!!!!!
 
miko,

Seriously if I know you personally and you are my friend, I would not hesitate to give you a piece of my mind.

My marriage just past the 20th year (with the last 3 years in separation). I have three children from this marriage - and I still have to meet and see my wife day in day out.

So, you think I have it easy when my marriage ended?

It is alright to take a year or even 2 to walk out of the shadow of doubts. But at least you must be willing and show more positive attitude.

Don't give me this crap about the long relationship because mine is longer. And also I have three children caught in between and when at times when they yearned for their mother, my heart weakened but still I counselled them and we managed to move forward.

So don't think it is really so tough to move forward. It is your attitude that is damning.. moving forward is not all that difficult if we put our minds to it.
 
Miko,

It get tedious repeating it over and over again. You have been saying that you want to move on. So just do it instead of standing on that spot and whine over it. Once or twice, people walking pass you will reach out their hand and help you along, but self pity will only be that. Self pity. No one else is going to pity you if you don't help yourself.

I'm sorry if I am harsh. I might not have the experience of a 15 year long relationship. But I have my share of sadness, and self pity, but after a while, I realise that everyone around will just move on with their life while i'm still standing on that same spot. And by breaking free, I freed myself, became happier, and realize that being happy is what one makes of it. It's because I WANT to be happy and move on, not because of someone or something.
 
Guys, gals...

In case you haven't noticed...
What miko is looking for is NOT how you move on from your experiences...

What she's looking for is ATTENTION to her misery (Who cares about your experience!!!) and for people to "sayang" her...*hug* her...tell her it's all right, that she should keep trying to win her husband back...blah blah blah...it's the *hugs and kisses* gang that we need here....and not the "regulars" gang...

Oh yah, in that case, we better flame Miko more...that's the only way to drag the *hugs and kisses* gang out from their slime holes...

freaking waste of time...both her's and other's...

PS : I'm not your friend...and if you "were", you would have gotten it from me big time long time ago...
 
Wahahahaha. Regular bully new member. As usual. He deals with many idiots. He thinks he is the king here. Talk only and wonder how he behaves in real life. Only lives in his own era and never grow up. Who needs that BIG FAT POWDER to teach people a lesson. As if he is confucius living in this forum, giving people advise. Wake up and STOP BEING A COMPUTER HERO lah bro.
 
Oh by the way i am no what biscuit or papa or mama.. Please don't assume u sibei Kiang. Kiang can already but plese don't make people puke by acting GEY KIANG!!! Muahahaha.


PS : I'm not your friend...and if you "were", you would have gotten it from me big time long time ago...>> Oh my god. Look at the BIG SENTENCE u have made. What an arrogant statement is that. Gotten from u? What can people get from u except a whole big lump or FATS and LARD?
 
Denon, dun be an ass lah. Powderful has his own thread. Go flame him there. Miko is confused enough & for long enough already. Dun need u here to complicate matters.
 
Denon,

i'm Powder, he is Powderful... get that right First. i assume u meant him, but i have some words for u.

the vibes in this thread is too deep for u to understand (even if it's just regular language). i'm not sure how long u've been living and how much life experience u have, but sometimes u have gotta learn to look beyond the words and tones...

dude, your kind of level is perfect for those low-level scheming u see on tv... where the bad guy can cheat this idiot from episode 1 to episode 15 and the idiot doesn't even know... where all of us watching will feel frustrated watching the idiot cheated and still not know.

u're the audience who realise at episode 16 that 'Ooh... the bad guy is cheating the idiot'.

sometimes it's bad enough that pple remain cheated. but to have pple like u encouraging them to be cheated... it's a new Low...

WHAT THE FCUK KIND OF TIME AND ADVICE HAVE U EVER CONTRIBUTED FROM DAY 1?

as for computer hero... Dude, there may be idiots like u who need to come alive in the forum, but dun assume we're those idiots.
 
Don't assume what u say is correct and if u really did follow the episode, that fat powder did flame me time and time again no matter what i say. Whatever people say does not need his comment and criticism right? Even though the posting is not for him and he still want to act SUPERHERO and say teach this a lesson teach that a lesson. Think he what? Condor Hero or Marvel super hero? Stop being a computer hero. What right does he has to make comment on other people's posting? Whatever comment people post on this forum if it does not goes in the same direction he will start to FCUK here FCUK there. So who is the idiot that is inviting all this flaming? Don't sound like you have a wise and bright mind coz u are not. People like you have low self esteem. So you come online and criticise people for their language and mistake and comments whereas in real life nobody really actually listen to your comments. In real life nobody listens to your command and comments thus you and your brother come online and start flaming this and that. Please lah get a life and grow up. Sometimes people do not comment does not mean that person is speechless. I believe there is no stated rules that a member here have to contribute a constructive comment, do we?
 
Peeps...

Just do a search on Denon Lee...
You'll realise that he's a good-for-nothing who seems to take pride in leeching off his parents even after he got married (He got his parents to pay for everything you know...wedding, wedding ring, reno, house, ang baos to "brothers" and he's proud of it)...and No, he don't have to pay a monthly allowance to his parents as well.. Lucky chap....can spend all his money on cigs, clubbing and modding his car...What a glowing example for all men to follow...
http://www.singaporebrides.com/forumboard/messages/5/545500.html?1217899698

So I'm the only one who slams people?
If I'm not wrong, you were no better if not worse than me in a few threads...
http://www.singaporebrides.com/forumboard/messages/5/716460.html?1227067461#POST3267227
http://www.singaporebrides.com/forumboard/messages/5/829053.html?1226998932

So take a good look at yourself and your own comments before you go and confirm your status as a retard...
 
So? Whats the big deal with it?

Finally you spell it out clear. Haha. Sour grapes indeed. Haiz. Ok i forgive u. Its ok. There are many people around leeching on parents. Sorry to say i am not the worst around. Just that you did not see much enough to adjust yourself to such people only.
 
This is a cyber world and everyone can speak their mind without having to expose their identity. I don't see the need to get so work up with comments people made. When i post a comment i am looking it from the threadstarter's story and not other people's comment. Why should i bother about other people's comment? If the threadstarter wished to share their story then it is presume that they are open to any sorts of advice and comments. Now who are you to comment on other people's comment? Law enforcer or Computer hero? If you are really so righteous, then go out and help those wrongly accused rather than sitting here posting all these 'big' ideas of yours and trying to defend your comments everytime they are being rebutted.

I had my fair share for now. I will end here.
 
What you have to be to feel superior over maggots? Leeches, maggots, they are all the same. None that's worse than another. On this case, my respect for Sunbean is higher.
 
Woof Woof... wahahaha... Owner please take care of your dog properly. Don't let him come out act like a mad dog and anyhow bark. Also this is a forum for HUMAN not for DOGS. Thanks.
 
Parents to be this is a good example to take note. Please don't let your next generation ends up like this for empty vessels always make the most noise as they have nothing to prove but living on your worth
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HBH,

Dont get worked up over a good-for-nothing...

Denon is avoiding the portion in this thread where he's acting like an arsehole worse than I am...
http://www.singaporebrides.com/forumboard/messages/5/716460.html?1227067461#POST3267227

So he have totally no creditibility at all to question me...when he's behaving far worse...

People who still leeches off their parents knows no shame...so no point arguing with them...

Argues like a retarded kid as well...
 
Yah please take good care of your dog. Don't let your dog get work up over nothing. If not i am going to call SPCA.

Powerfula, destroying the credibility of an accused in court is a useful tactic. But this is a forum. Please. I am not going to plead guilty over the few counts u are prosecuting me.
 
Yah lah yah lah...

Dog lah...SPCA lah...haiz...can be more creative or not...Want to be insulting also must have standard...What's next for you? Cat? Mouse?

Yah, now that you have no credibility...you talk nonsense again....Credibility is applicable whether if you're in court or in a forum...It's applicable in REAL LIFE...
I don't need you to be accepting of my verdict...it's other people who I want to highlight to on people like you...I don't give a shit on what you think...

I don't expect you to understand as well seeing how you took pleasure in leeching off your parents (Is it more than 750k already? Did you have kids already? Are you parents paying for their milk powder and clothes as well???)...It's very apparent that we share different POVs in life...I don't really take pride in associating myself with a spoilt brat...

Are you going to get your parents to help you out now?
Might as well create a nick for them for "Denon Lee's parents"...
I will like to tell them a thing or two as well on how not to raise a kid...
 
Hahaha Powderfula u must be quite rich eh. Have so many dogs and bitches under your care hahaha. Not bad ah. Where u stay? Terrace or Bungalows? Only landed can have more than 1 dog.
 
Haha I am not getting work up over anything but just enjoy seeing how he barks. I don't know but I just enjoy stepping on such as they always make me feel good about myself you know
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Such people just reminds me of those kids running to dad and mom when they are "bullied" in school and hiding in their pants for as long as they can in life haha

It's good that such exists, so we are able to at least use them as a role marker to educate. If not where do we find such examples?

Carry on Denon, prove that you are more capable then going to Dad and Mum haha.
 
hahaha now dragging in parents. As if you have a good upbringing. Pot calling kettle black. Yah only u can insult people and people cannot insult you? Oh my god. I wonder how your parents manage to bring you up. A piece of lard good for nothing hiding behind computer typing and typing. Thought u are doing big business but actually posting and dragging all parents into the picture. Please lah this is the matter here.. Don't drag parent in. If u are going to do this then i think u got no standard either.
 
Dogs will be dogs.. Tell them don't anyhow bark and they keep coming in and woof woof. Haha Cannot blame cos they are not human so they do notunderstand English.

Powderfula, wah u damn powderful. I salute u. Imagine in a zoo, a pig can control so many dogs. Hahaha. U can be a Zookeeper and maybe u can prevent accident from happening like the whitetiger killing a man. Hahaha.
 
Denon,

i'm Powder, he is Powderful... get that right pls.

"People like you have low self esteem. So you come online and criticise people for their language and mistake and comments whereas in real life nobody really actually listen to your comments. In real life nobody listens to your command and comments thus you and your brother come online and start flaming this and that. Please lah get a life and grow up."

- your life-experience really sucks... u read quite poorly. i dun build my esteem on 750k of handout from parents, contribute a paltry $275 to own home instalments and feel particularly proud abt it. something is wrong with u to actually feel good abt it.

u're really weird... u spend your money modding cars and u're saying tat i have a low self-esteem? damn pathetic lah u... kena caught lying thru your teeth and still bickering...
 
Oh by the way how come suddenly u release so many dogs out to bark at a harmless young man who is trying to buy some pork home to cook for tonite 's dinner? Hahahaha...
 
See...

Still harping on dogs...haiz...Damn lame leh

Mr Lee...I didn't brought up your parents...you did in the other thread...
I'm just commenting on your parents based on what they have done for you and what you have said in that thread...Fair?
At least I have not been leeching on my parents since I started working...You did...
I don't brag about leeching on my parents...You did...

My parents brought me up to be independent when I'm an adult...
What did yours teaches you?

Your actions here REFLECTS how your parents have brought you up...so yes, it's important to bring them in...
By understanding how they are spoiling you gives us people here a better understanding of the PERSON THAT YOU ARE...the PERSONALITY that you possess...and that pretty much sums up how they have failed in their parenting...

I would have disowned my son if he had to cheek to tell me that he needs 750k for wedding, ring, house, reno for his wedding...
I would have hoped that I would have raised a child that don't turns out to be a useless bum in life...

If you can't afford to get married...then don't...
 
powderful,

solid rite? this kind of characters actually exist and feel so proud of it... alot of the old folks in homes actually commit this mistake... they pay more than they should, taking every ounce of responsibility and Strive from their children... ending with kids with a poorly-perceived view of money. and when the money runs out, the folks are the first to be shown the door as they have become a burden...

giving younsters a house they dun have to work for, taking away the bills they have to be responsible to pay... these are things tat parents should never commit. look at the product...
 
It's just so typical of someone who can't stand on his own two feet. Can't even properly debate and face what other's have for them resorting to all the diverting of focus here and there.

All the actions just proves it needless to say more.
 
HBH,

You'll notice what class they are...
Repetitive mention of animal class (dogs are fav! poor dogs...bad reputation for them when they don't deserve it)...body parts (or lack of...ball-less, dick-less)...or things like fat, lard lah...

I mean...who uses that nowadays besides Sec school kids?
Does anyone still argues like that when you're in your adult life? Did they ever grow up since they done their O levels?
Damn lame...
 
Nice hor...
Can knock off so early to go back to the house that his parents bought for him...

We entertain him?
He can't tell the difference between entertainment and people calling him a useless good-for-nothing parents-leeching bum?

No wonder...
Guy got no shame...
 
Powder...

That's why I have brought up those links...
So that people here can understand what are the sort of people that are launching these attacks on us...

People who have been living a sheltered life on their parents and who said such mean and irresponsible things (mean even by MY standards and I was mad enough to step in and whack him!) to gals should have the CHEEK to tick me off...

Let the people in this forum be the judge...
 
no need judges also lah, i'm done with the shallow, seriously.

Mod car... Mod car... spend money to mod car can be considered into monthly expenses and expenditure from salary??? it should be loose change for car modding... spare cash... 30k, 40k, 80k mods... these should be spare change... not some monthly expenditure or costs worth mentioning...

but these prob the motoring groupie who spend all their time bargaining for cheap bulk purchases thru this lobang that lobang, jio a few guys and bargain like hell... then pester some mechanic to do the modding work cheap. this month do air intake, next month do exhaust, following month add spoiler...

to have to hear these pple tell me that i have a low self-esteem is abit irritating... just a bunch of overgrown kids with no priorities in life.
 
Aiyah that's y I said people like such always make me feel good about myself.

Especially enjoy the parts when they scramble to find whatever hole they can to bury their face in and hurling the dirt at all directions to maintain the false illusion of "pride" they have.

He made me feel good at the start of the week haha.
 
I might not have the time to visit this forum regularly but somehow do selective reading on subject that interest me. I do believe there is some truth that Powerful tone is harsh and at times offensive.

Perhaps for regulars that have been reading all his post could be more forgiving. Anyway, I expect strong rebut from him. Good day.....
 
stuv, not really a strong response by my standards...more bemused than pissed...

First...you're just like one of those who pops in only irregularly...and only happens to go on "selective reading" mode...
So your views are biased...you chose to only see the "bad" side of my post and not how I behave in general day-to-day...

Have seen too many of such posts by people of your kind (irregulars) recently to have resigned myself to the fact that there will always be people like you and Denon out there...who only chose to see the "bad" side of me...

If you can't even take the time and effort to better understand who and what I stand for...then you're not really derserving of a strong rebut from me...

To me...you're just a stranger...not even a regular in this forum...why should I care too much? If you have taken the trouble to read through my posts on a deeper level...you would have understand why the regulars forummers in this forum understands me...These people know me...you irregulars don't...

Good day to you too...
I hope your divorce ends well...for the sake of your kids....

PS: That's my respect to you...I understand who you are and what you have been through...Did you extend that courtesy to me? Or did you just happen to stumble onto a thread where I was "nasty" to a moron and assume the worst of me? Think about it and NOTICE the contrast in the tone of my posts between you and Denon...I'm not ALWAYS an arsehole...
 
ya i agree with stuv55 that the tone is harsh most of the times. mine as well...

what i dun understand is Why that is seen as a bad thing, to be honest... i mean everyone has kind of been thru a decent amount of Life... and enough to understand there's the soft side and the harsh side to things... sometimes frens are nice to us, sometimes they screw us when we are wrong... i dun really know what's wrong with that.

those of u who are unaccustomed to harsher tones are like, this bunch of weird pple...
who accuse parents who cane their children as Bad.
teachers who scold their students as Bad.
frens who reprimand their frens as Bad.
etc etc

i mean, do u guys really go thru life totally filled with nice soft sweet tones from pple? in army, does your sergeant ask u, "john, can u please fall in, and dun mind, could u inform the rest of the platoon as well?"

i mean, is that the kind of tones u've been getting all your life? does your boss speak softly n sweetly to u? do your parents appeal to u when u're a bad kid instead of scolding u?

Really, why are some of u demanding for soft tones... YES - DEMANDING. and 'Demand' in itself isn't exactly a soft tone...

Read the advice. Tones are important... if u dun even know that, something is seriously wrong with your life education.
 
another thing to note... we are generally nicer to strangers... when pple are not nice to strangers, they are viewed as brutes...

thing is, i tend to treat forummers like how i treat my frens... and YES, i am very very harsh with frens... it's the real me, not just becos i use a nick. u mean u dun screw your frens when they make stupid decisions?

- like when your fren insist on driving after drinking...
- when your fren is getting played around by a ktv-gal who is just out for his money but he's too blind to see..
- when dad is digging into his savings to gamble..
- when your younger brother spends dad's credit card till max..
- when your fren drinks all nite and his wife is worried sick at home..

u just use soft tones? is this the REALITY of your life?
 
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