Dear Threasher,
May I suggest that it is unfair to bring along one's expectations from another country or another region; if you go to the Canadian Rockies expecting the same type of spectacular scenery, you are just going to be disappointed, as you've already found out. I made that same mistake last time too.
This is my take; if we go to someplace and if we are not adventurous and we only want to eat our rice and Chinese food, then what's the point of going? I'm not saying that you have to like it, but we should at least try right? Experiment and see what the big deal is about the local food. It's part of the whole traveling experience, and honestly, if your wife tries to get out of the "tour group" mentality, she will enjoy the trip much more. There is so much to explore in every town, and each area has its own local specialities.
Honestly if one doesn't even TRY the local pastries and fruits, and food of course... then what's the point of going overseas? Might as well just eat in SG; cheap and good.
Having said that, we're the adventurous type; and there's nothing in the world that beats French pastry or French cuisine; Chinese cuisine is quite good too but it is different so they are not really comparable. If you come away from France not even trying their local cuisine or foodstuff, then you will never discover what many Singaporeans have.
When we talk about the heavenly millefeuille with the layers of custard and crunchy pastry, or the freshest juciest oysters, or the rich and tasty bouillabaisse, or the fantastic confit de Canard (which we had in Annecy!), or that super-cheap EUR 14 demi-bouteille of Mumm Champagne that we bought from the local supermarket and enjoyed with our home-cooked dinner, or that AOC Butter we had with toasted Baguette, or the fragrant and delicious Miel de Romarin, you will just stare blankly at us and wonder what you missed out on.
Also it seems like you've been to the wrong restaurants; but then again, if you pay peanuts, you expect to get... well you know. Good and reasonably priced food is not hard to come by in France, but it's kinda hard to explain where to find it... somehow when I see it I know.
A few hints are crowds, French-only menus, specialities written on a chalkboard, small outfits, recommendations from a local, etc.
Oh... another reason you find Annecy boring is because you don't have a CAR to drive around the lake or to go up the surrounding mountains. The view from above is just great. You could do the next best thing, that is to rent a bicycle and cycle around the lake. That's quite nice too; only when it's not raining of course.
Just my two Euro cents worth, no offence. Thanks for posting the updates, it makes us look forward to the trip. Whatever it is, do enjoy Annecy and the rest of your holiday. You can only enjoy what we described if you both are a bit more adventurous.
Of course you could also just choose to do as you are doing, but then you might just find that France doesn't live up to your expectations and it's not France's fault.