I'm not sure how this is relevant to you so I'd advise you to consult a Feng Shui Master/Practitioner or a relative..
Traditionally:
1) Two families pick an auspicious date as the betrothal Day. This is a formal meeting between the parents of the perspective bride and groom.
The groom's family presents various proposal gifts. Thus, the two are considered officially engaged. Nowadays that hardly happens. lol...
2)Ping Jin (Dowry)/ Tables
Nowadays if the bridegroom's family gives pingjin to the bride's family, normally no tables are given. if tables are given, then the ang paos collected from the tables given are the pingjin. This practice is to thank the bride's family for taking care of the bride for so many years. There are cases, when the bridegroom gives tables and dowry, that really depends on individual.. sometimes in today's modern world, bridegroom and bride share the costs of the dinner.. Apart from this, li bing, suckling pig are given to the bride's family.. but that is really a cantonese custom.
3) The groom's family performs "an chuan" ritual... The groom's family decorates the bridal house for the wedding, while the bride's family prepares household accessories, mostly bedding and dining necessities, for the new home.
4) On the day of the wedding, two families performs "hair dressing" ritual and "capping" ritual for the bride and groom respectively. Then the groom sets out to the bride's home, and he will inevitably be blocked at her door by her friends, and the bridesmaids will play door game with the groom and his attendants. The bride and groom will then leave her home and proceed to meet the groom's parents for Tea Ceremony. The wedding date ceremony ends with the banquet
5) for more enquires, i really urge you to consult a FSM .. lol... this is only my half-baked effort.. lol..