Facing anulment, broken heart

It'll nv be a fair game, I've lost $15,000 from the sale of my flat to that bastard's mother, plus all the nasty name-callings.... so all i can say is sue him for the adultry, u can get away clean and fast, and gain ur sanity back.

Get a better lawyer, dun waste ur youth on this idiot. I've wasted 2 yrs on a lousy lawyer, my current one settle my case for me within 6 mths.
 


in the 1st place, by doing this to me, this game has never been fair.

for rewarding me with this shit when i've been so nice these 3 yrs.

good people always get bullied.
 
whoever's hand is longer wins
whoever's mind is faster wins.

No fairness in this world.
Instead try putting urself in a more advantage position and deal with him. U seems to have the slight upper hand. Now it's just on how deal with it.
 
lost, have advised you many times to look forward and not backward. YOu can't change anything in the past.

Instead you are still lamenting and wasting precious time and energy. You are losing even more now. If you could just let go - ignore him and do what you need to do.

This world is never fair. And don't tell us how nice you have been - it is immaterial. If you are really nice to yourself you wouldn't still be posting these posts that still carry signs of hangover from his actions. Be nicer to yourself - that is the best thing you can give yourself.
 
Lost, I'm behind you even though we have not met before.

Mustn't give in to this type of bastard. Let's see 3 years later after the divorce, the bitch will still be there for him. If this bastard can do this to you, I'm sure he will do the same by betraying the bitch for another lady.
 
Lost, I agree with hunky, sm and questy. Don't waste time. Decide what you want to do and get on with life. Your life will be more beautiful
 
yeah. move on. trust me everyone, im really trying my very best to. even though sometimes my emotions and thoughts would run wild, i try to put them back on the right track. i'll tell myself i've lost nothing without him. i still have my friends and family here to support me.

now just waiting to sign the deed of seperation then wait 3 years for divorce le. thats all for the case.. is this the right thing im doing? i just want to respect the truth that we HAVE consummated the marriage thats why i dont wanna go for anulment.
 
You should go for anulment, it's better for u personally as u are as good as new, why bring upon pblm on urself regarding the consummated-or-not???

Dun bother wasting money on the deed of seperation which cost $1000+++, he can ignore it for good and u'll feel the "punch" and not "pinch", like me. Trust me, just sign off this nightmare and it'll be a REAL move on for u, it's not worth wasting ur time for him.

Pls believe what I'm stating, cos the years of waiting for the divorce is TERRIBLE!!! I envy u hving the chance to end it with annulment, dun waste this precious chance which many woman do not have.

U are not the only one suffering, cos ur family and friends who loves u are worrying for u too.... so for u and ur love ones, move on with the annulment.....
 
lost,

whether you go for annulment or divorce is up to you. Just think of what is BETTER for you and not to prevent him from having the easy way out.

And yes, Deed of Separation - if he is not agreeable, no point wasting your money.
 
i just want to be happy.

happy new year everyone. =)

i'll love myself even more from today onwards.

never look back.
 
Good to know tat u tink this way, lost.
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Brand new year, brand new start.
You can do it. There are people here willing to listen to u if u need a listening "ear".
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im very happy i can pour out my feelings here.

if not for this forum, i think i'll still be hiding in my shell and crying everyday.

i really thank everyone for your advices and giving me encouragement to move on strong.
 
Lost, glad tat u have come out from ur shell n start afresh. Remember, all hopes r not lost unless u given up hope on urself.

Don't let anyone ruin ur own life.
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i will not let him ruin my life, bec this is my life and losing him is not the end for me.

i'll spend time to concentrate on achieving my goals in life now.

we can live without love, but not without career and money. =)
 
does it matter who is at fault... i admit tat at times i still have urged to hate her.. but most of the time, it does not matter.. move on ba! u be happier.. not for him, its for urself.. u will be happier if u decide to move on... life still goes on, my friend.
 
Lost,
Work hard earn more money.
Spend ur money on
1)Good food
2)Great shopping
3)Good holidays
4)Make new friends
5)Good sex of u have new bf or FB

Life will be wonderful!!!
 
Hi Lost,

I can't help but post. It's really ok and natural to feel all the resentment towards your EX HB. And you are really strong to stop answering his calls and his sms. Let him sweat more. Stop caring about what he is doing with his new gal. He is saying all that to spite you.. And when they break up one day. you will be the one who has the last laugh cos he doesn't know how to appreciate you. You will meet someone else... you are still young.. At age 24, the fun has just started.

and so I should post here.. Let the fun begins
 
Dear all,

Happy Chinese New Year!

Thanks for all your support. Im moving on and i feel so much better now. Not thinking of wat happened everyday. Enjoying my life and making new friends.

On second thoughts, it's not a bad thing this happened to me too. He is not the perfect husband i wanted to have. Now i have a chance to find someone better and someone who will love me more. i have a freedom of choice now. =)
 
Lost, take time to understand yourself and what kind of person is compatible with you. A good man or a better man may not turn out to be compatible
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