Does not matter if I feel I am the best husband or not but the fact is we all have a responsibility to play once we have kids like it or not. We cannot always put ourselves first as much as we like it. Abandoning the family for such selfish reason is itself something I cannot do it. I guess everyone has their own opinion and perspective. Alot of ppl are envious of us or I am envious of others. Our daily lives shaped who we are. Things simply get too comfortable.