I have no one to turn to, hence writing my problems here. Hopefully I can see some lights to it. These few weeks I have been feeling very down and hurt and having negative thoughts. My hubby told me he no longer love me just three weeks after our wedding. It is so sudden that I am not able to accept it. We have been together for more than a decade. I thought that our r/s is stable and strong. We have been through ups and downs but to me most of them are happy memories.
I am too in love with him. I am so happy on my wedding day, thinking that a new journey has just began. Our parents, relatives and friends are very happy to see us finally wed. The vows we made are still so fresh. One day he told me the truth, he say he got no feelings for me few years back and everything was a show. He no longer holds my hands, no longer hugs me to sleep and everything I do he will be pissed off. I tired my best not to break down in front of him, and whenever I did he jus can't stand it. He thinks I wan sympathy. I dunno why the sudden change in him. He feel very stress up about this and I feel that I need to free him to make him happy. But I can't bear to. Isn't marriage a lifelong commitment and promises made to each other? Why is he taking it so lightly and doesn't care abt how I feel? And wat abt the happy moments we spent tog?
Each time I think of letting go, my heart hurts a lot. I feel like I am having depression. Memories of us tog keep creeping in, I can't stand it. When I see happy couples, tears juz flows from my eyes. We were once happy, enjoyed each other company, making fun of each other. We have seen each other grown from a teenager to a working adults. Gg through so much tog, how m I gg to let go.looking at the wedding photos makes and decos at hm, makes me feel worse. I still need to put on a smile wen I m at wrk. It is not easy for me. I dun wish to annul our wedding. What can I do to salvage this wedding? I am very lost. I am not sure if he feels guilty or he is juz not ready for the wedding. Please advise me. What should I do. Currently we are not seeing each other to cool down.
I am too in love with him. I am so happy on my wedding day, thinking that a new journey has just began. Our parents, relatives and friends are very happy to see us finally wed. The vows we made are still so fresh. One day he told me the truth, he say he got no feelings for me few years back and everything was a show. He no longer holds my hands, no longer hugs me to sleep and everything I do he will be pissed off. I tired my best not to break down in front of him, and whenever I did he jus can't stand it. He thinks I wan sympathy. I dunno why the sudden change in him. He feel very stress up about this and I feel that I need to free him to make him happy. But I can't bear to. Isn't marriage a lifelong commitment and promises made to each other? Why is he taking it so lightly and doesn't care abt how I feel? And wat abt the happy moments we spent tog?
Each time I think of letting go, my heart hurts a lot. I feel like I am having depression. Memories of us tog keep creeping in, I can't stand it. When I see happy couples, tears juz flows from my eyes. We were once happy, enjoyed each other company, making fun of each other. We have seen each other grown from a teenager to a working adults. Gg through so much tog, how m I gg to let go.looking at the wedding photos makes and decos at hm, makes me feel worse. I still need to put on a smile wen I m at wrk. It is not easy for me. I dun wish to annul our wedding. What can I do to salvage this wedding? I am very lost. I am not sure if he feels guilty or he is juz not ready for the wedding. Please advise me. What should I do. Currently we are not seeing each other to cool down.