my bf and his wife has been together for 9yrs..
when i got to know them (we all get to know each other through online game), they wasnt on good terms alrdy. i was often stuck in between them when they are having cold war. As i was on very good term with my bf (as a frnd then), he often share with me his story abt he and his wife. he says they cannot communciate at all, and his wife told me that all along, she was the one holding on. When my bf confessed to me that he was interested in me, he told me he had a very strong sense of feeling for me then his wife. I duno how true the sentence was then, i asked him, if there wasnt any love between you and ur wife, why get married in the first place. He said he only like her but has nvr fallen into a deep love for her. She wants to get married and buys a HDB flat, so he obliges and do whatever he can to accede to her request. I rejected him in the first place cos i thought its impossible de. For a very long time, he kept repeating he wants a divorce because he and his wife cannot communciate at all. In the end, i got together with him, his wife gets to know in the end and eventually led to the process of divorce.
Diana, we do discussed abt my bf before. she said she had nvr received those treatments i got from my bf before. she even mentioned to me that she realised my bf truely loves me from the action he displayed. Actually she dint really condemn him, she shared a lot fair views and opinions. she is attached now too.
Its just that the way my bf behaves makes me think a lot and my mind often wonders off to far far away land.
