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His friends comment.
It’s been nearly a month since the 1st letter from our poor China girl was circulated. Just let me be really clear before I continue, I am a friend of Kelvin Ching, and of course I defend my friend. There’s nothing like a woman’s scorn and this instance clearly demonstrates that. And if there’s anyone out there who’s still circulating this email, take a step back and consider the fact that this ‘Kelvin’ or ‘Pauline’ could have been your friend, colleague and if that’s case would you still continue to forward such an email
For every man out there who forwarded the email, can you touch your heart and say you have never cheated on someone, (girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, dog, etc), and can you say the same for all your best buddies. And if you can’t, then let me remind you. this email could have been about YOU.
Back to China what’s her name. Words mean nothing. Divorces happen despite vows made before all the holy names of various religions, less say a relationship that took place in a KTV? And in the 1st place, why were you working in TAM? Arent you on a student visa? So, are you working illegally? Can the authorities please do something?????
Would anyone in the right frame of mind look for a lifelong partner from a KTV? And can any women out there trust a man who visit a KTV? Yes. Fairytales do happen, unfortunately not to you. Take it, swallow it, and move on.
I am sure in the times when you aren’t working, you are probably behaving like a real student, living up to the promises that you made to whoever you love back home, that you are indeed studying. That would not have happened otherwise. For all the money you could have made, and all the opportunity costs you mentioned, it’s is YOUR choice. You can walk out anytime, and all your wise friends would have advise you before, that YOUTH for someone like you is everything. You CHOSE to ignore, blinded by greed, hope, or whatever it may be.
Your action demonstrates there’s no LOVE lost. Peppering lies in an email of truth shows how well-advised you are. But the fact is the relationship has turned soured. Don’t hide behind an email. Contact Hangqing, do a Wanbao, TNP article, go in the open, admit you were whoring, and get back at Kelvin, like a real woman. Face the consequences of your action and decisions, just like Kelvin did because of your email.
The real victim is Pauline. For a woman who is a third-party, you have the cheek to portray yourself as a victim. We are adults. Live with that!
as this concerns one's privacy.. i didnt open up a thread but just asking the regulars for their pov as i see that both the male and the female have almost equal amount of supporters.