Hi Blissed,
In traditional terms, the groom's side should pay for the banquet and give bride's side a certain no of tables, which means, all ang baos go to groom's side, except for those tables which he gives bride, den bride's side will keep the ang baos. But if both of u r paying for the banquet yourselves, den all ang baos u keep, which means profit or loss both of u gotta absorb...
But groom's side wil not give so many tables de, like example if total got 30 tables, he might only give u 8 to 10 tables, but if it's not enough for u, den u gotta fork out the money for the extra tables tat u need... this is wat it means... but of course, those tables tat bride's side fork out themselves, all ang baos they will keep...