BF Had Changed

Not even sure if he is really that cold to her. Same person, completely different view within weeks. Sometimes, its a matter of perception.

Because, she wanted out, she would see the worst of his every action then to justify her decision.
 


@Milo: Yes I only focus on the WORST of his every action during the breakup and had forgotten how GOOD he had treated me. I have treated every actions as I DESERVE it and have taken him for granted.

I miss so many of the good times we had spent together.
Time spent exploring Palau Ubin, Kusu Island and Batam
Time spent driving around Singapore aimlessly in the wee hours of the morning
Time Spent exploring good Ice-Cream Cafes
Time Spent watching movies till 3am
Time Spent MSNing each other while working
And Lastly Time Spent talking everynight till 1-2am listening to my every grumble and problems.

Hopefully he will still miss me despite all the harsh things I have said to him
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Cherie, don't hang on the past. Pursue the future. If there is a future together, I wish you the best. But, if there isn't don't hold on to the past. Cherish the memories and pick up the lessons.
 
it's human nature to take things for granted, to only see the bad in someone but never see the good in him/her . that's why there's this word call "regret".

Some regret can be return and resume the life as per normal by saying the words "I still love you" or "I am sorry"

When ego get overboard. regret remain forever.

Cherie, love is also something to learn. you got to learn how to love, be love and give love.

Regret, is something which is to be learn too.
 
So glad I have meet my "Pokemon" last nite..

When I saw him, my hearted sanked and don't know why I suddenly broke down and cried infront of him...

He said nothing, put his arms around me and said everything was alright now and he still loved me. At that moment .. I know He and I will be together forever and our love is stronger than because of this break.

Glad that this ordeal is finally over and I can see he treats me so much better. (Even send me an sms to ask if I have taken my lunch already or not)

So glad through the difficult time, our relationship both survived and grew even Stronger than before
 
Cherie, I'm happy for you.

Personally, my relationship with wife became much stronger after our 3 months break up too. Made us cherish each other more and realize how trivial and insignificant the difference we struggled with were.
 
@Milo.. Agree with you.. Absence do make the heart grow stronger. It is your advice and encouragement that gave me the courage to call him.

If I have not called him, he will be waiting for me to contact me and I am waiting to call him and in the end, we will be broken for good.

Breakup do strengthen and deepen the relationship if feelings still exist between the couple and I do agree that it "made us cherish each other more and realize how trivial and insignificant the difference we struggled with were".
 
Cherie, cherish it. Its like striking 4D to have a 2nd chance on it. It doesn't always happen this way.
 
During the 2 week period, we have both cooled down and reflected on our own lives & actions and have realised where had gone wrong and have addressed the issue.
 
@Milo.. We will definately cherish one another from this moment and will not behave like little kids breaking up when things goes bad.

Thanks for your encouragement and advices
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One break-up strengthen...

Ten break-ups will mean it will be unbreakable?

Ha ha.. but break-ups are not easy.. depending on the people involved...
 
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