Anyone with same experience? Husband visits prostitutes

Carousell

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Hi,

Is there anyone here who caught their husband cheating with prostitutes? Can share your story and what is your choice after discovery? Divorce or stay on?
 


A leopard never change its spots .... my ex was introduce to vice by his "buddies" ..goody buddies...one lead to another ...one darinly confronted me n another from the net n then he decided to upgrade...fly them in...wtf...i endured cos my kids were so young ...thats was bad decision .i should hv took the kids n left ... he wasnt remorseful n refuse to change...more women come n go...most from vice n wanting to grab a Sg man...thai, viets, msian ..sigh...so if you hv caught a cheater, a cheater will always be a cheater...once he told me forbidden fruit always taste sweet ... suggest get a PI n make his pants drop in court
 
Hi sad to hear that you experience the same thing. My hubby not so rich cannot fly them in, spore itself got so many working in private condos and hotels already, dont need to fly them in. I hope there are some more people who can share success stories, hope not all end up in divorce.

My case a bit different because my husband apologise to me and we recognise that he is addicted. Since young porn addiction and it got worse after one team building phuket trip. So now he has thrown and destroyed all the sexual explicit materials in computers and cds. He will make it a point not to visit sammyboy forum or watch pornography anymore.

I m sad that your husband is not remorseful despite having children. They will be affected. Sounds like your husband is quite rich, since he id a clear cut case that he wont stop, i agree you should get as much maintenace as possible. My hubby and i are starting afresh. He loves his children and has been helping out in housework all along, i was shocked when i realise he visits prostitutes. We dont have much intimacy in the first place because i was always tired and not interested. And of course i didnt realise he has an addiction since young. Its all in his brain and he wants to live healthy now, i hope we will be healthy family from now on and hope to hear more success stories to encourage myself.

As for you, if you managed to leave and sustain your life healthily with kids, its another success story of a single mum, you can still meet a better man in future. Please also share with me how you move on if you are comfortable with it.
 
A leopard never change its spots .... my ex was introduce to vice by his "buddies" ..goody buddies...one lead to another ...one darinly confronted me n another from the net n then he decided to upgrade...fly them in...wtf...i endured cos my kids were so young ...thats was bad decision .i should hv took the kids n left ... he wasnt remorseful n refuse to change...more women come n go...most from vice n wanting to grab a Sg man...thai, viets, msian ..sigh...so if you hv caught a cheater, a cheater will always be a cheater...once he told me forbidden fruit always taste sweet ... suggest get a PI n make his pants drop in court
Hi gladjo, thanks for your input, please read my long post and share more with me if you are comfortable, lets be strong.
 
Hi Carousell

You have to close both eyes n have a big heart to stay on ... after my divorce.. i keep myself busy with work n activities n help ppl ...by helping ppl i help myself
 
Hi Carousell

You have to close both eyes n have a big heart to stay on ... after my divorce.. i keep myself busy with work n activities n help ppl ...by helping ppl i help myself
Hi gladjo, i wont be able to close both eyes. I wont want to live with him continuing his actions. It is because he wanted to stop and because we have kids thats why i stay. I m hoping that theres someone who can share w me their success stories, i hope that in my case, its not leopard never change its spot.
 
Then pray hard gal ...not casustic but thats what i did also..i prayed n prayed
Did your hubby do anything then to salvage the marriage or you just rely on praying? For my case, though i cant close two eyes or have a big heart, i am willing to try because he did do a lot of things to make me feel at ease and safe. Its not just me discovering and we just move on wout him doing any thing or make changes.
 
Did your hubby do anything then to salvage the marriage or you just rely on praying? For my case, though i cant close two eyes or have a big heart, i am willing to try because he did do a lot of things to make me feel at ease and safe. Its not just me discovering and we just move on wout him doing any thing or make changes.

Hi Carousell,
It must have been tough for you.. good that your husband is willing to change to win you back.

Forgiving is tough, forgetting is even tougher. If you are willing to give hime a second chance, try your best to forget...at the same time keep an eyes on what has been missing in your relationship with hubby.. I always believe both sides need to work on it in order for a marriage to be a successful one.

What happened in others' relationship are just references... you need to pick one that suits yourself.
Take care..
 
Hi Carousell,
It must have been tough for you.. good that your husband is willing to change to win you back.

Forgiving is tough, forgetting is even tougher. If you are willing to give hime a second chance, try your best to forget...at the same time keep an eyes on what has been missing in your relationship with hubby.. I always believe both sides need to work on it in order for a marriage to be a successful one.

What happened in others' relationship are just references... you need to pick one that suits yourself.
Take care..
Thank you for your sharing, i appreciate it
 

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