Anyone whose bf/htb/hubby left you for another MAN?
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If we see others as people who has feelings, love, hate and hurt regardless of gender, then what's wrong with love between 2 women or men?
I'm christian btw, and I hold to this view of life and love. I still don't know how to reconcile what I know deep in my heart to my religion. I hope I'm able to someday.
I'm christian btw, and I hold to this view of life and love. I still don't know how to reconcile what I know deep in my heart to my religion. I hope I'm able to someday.
pasir_ris_beach
Member
Better to lose to a man, than to lose to another woman...no?( I dun buy this)
Wat if the other Man converts to another woman thru sex change operation, so the answer is the SAME.
I have seen several "transsexual women" before and i still find it hard to believe that they were men once but still more beautiful n cute than us ordinary women. And i know one former female to man now and he is male legally now. Asked him why the change and his answer is he felt trapped inside a woman's body so he wanted to be a man. so i nothing to say.
SO what if the two men r in love together. dun they think if they want to get married, do it in overseas la. None of our biz. but but but if one of them is married, plz do spare a thought for the wife n kids, can. DO NOT HURT THEM for they r innocent in the picture.
Wat if the other Man converts to another woman thru sex change operation, so the answer is the SAME.
I have seen several "transsexual women" before and i still find it hard to believe that they were men once but still more beautiful n cute than us ordinary women. And i know one former female to man now and he is male legally now. Asked him why the change and his answer is he felt trapped inside a woman's body so he wanted to be a man. so i nothing to say.
SO what if the two men r in love together. dun they think if they want to get married, do it in overseas la. None of our biz. but but but if one of them is married, plz do spare a thought for the wife n kids, can. DO NOT HURT THEM for they r innocent in the picture.
pasir_ris_beach
Member
And those who want oppose my post, ask yourselves what will u do if you find out your own husband loves another man. If u r able to accept and share your husband with another MAN, I take my hat off n bow to u ok. I admit i cannot accept this. (like cuclainne, janie, etc who agree with them)
please stop putting words in people's mouths can? i only said that it's possible for 2 men or women for this matter to fall in love with each other and if they can provide a loving stable environment, so be it. i never asked for someone to accept and share their husbands with other men, that is their own perogative .. really blur, wake up please! learn to read and write properly ok .. otherwise learn when is appropriate to keep quiet, so people won't know that you really are blur
janie_wawa
New Member
huh? do u noe wat u r toking abt now? n wat r u challenging now??? i seriously tink u have some problem comprehending wat some of us wrote...
tis was merely wat i wrote..."blur, pls lah...exactly tat tis is singapore..& its oso ppl like u who makes tis singapore...get it?" & it is replying to YOUR post which was "cuclainne, please la. this is singapore, not overseas." juz in case u couldnt get wat i meant..im suaning U.
for your information, i did not offer any other advice to the TS coz i noe i have no advices 4 her. this post is actually to U. for being such a typical singaporean...U could not accept gays in our society. & even looked down on them with your 'YUCKS'...u noe how disgusting tat was? to come out from a human who cannot accept other human just becoz they r gay? im wondering wat u will do if u have a son who turned gay in future...im not cursing or anything..but i wan to bring tis point across to u...be it gay or lesbian...they r still some1's child. tink abt it...wat would u do if
& pls quote me..from where/which sentence did i say i can accept my hub to b a gay & share my husband with another man? when? no 1 can accept of coz...but when it really happens...wat can u do? work it out..either u stay or leave rite?
so pls do not put words into other ppl's mouth...n weird thing is...i oni posted 1 line which is of no relevance to the thread...yet U have to mention my name & accuse me of being able to accept n share my husband being with another man. now wats ur problem?
tis was merely wat i wrote..."blur, pls lah...exactly tat tis is singapore..& its oso ppl like u who makes tis singapore...get it?" & it is replying to YOUR post which was "cuclainne, please la. this is singapore, not overseas." juz in case u couldnt get wat i meant..im suaning U.
for your information, i did not offer any other advice to the TS coz i noe i have no advices 4 her. this post is actually to U. for being such a typical singaporean...U could not accept gays in our society. & even looked down on them with your 'YUCKS'...u noe how disgusting tat was? to come out from a human who cannot accept other human just becoz they r gay? im wondering wat u will do if u have a son who turned gay in future...im not cursing or anything..but i wan to bring tis point across to u...be it gay or lesbian...they r still some1's child. tink abt it...wat would u do if
& pls quote me..from where/which sentence did i say i can accept my hub to b a gay & share my husband with another man? when? no 1 can accept of coz...but when it really happens...wat can u do? work it out..either u stay or leave rite?
so pls do not put words into other ppl's mouth...n weird thing is...i oni posted 1 line which is of no relevance to the thread...yet U have to mention my name & accuse me of being able to accept n share my husband being with another man. now wats ur problem?
miloice
Well-Known Member
actually, I dunno what's there for accept or argue about. Its like someone saying those that love durians are so gross and as good as eating shit.
Whether we like, love or disgusted with it is a personal thing. It maybe easy for someone to appreciate or understand it but tough for others. But the point is, we cannot deprive or stop someone else from eating durians simply because we cannot accept it. The acceptance is at a personal level not at society level.
Else, we will be going back to the ages where the government / faith impose all kinds of restrictions on the entire society to conform to.
Just like the TPN article about the Holland Village nude couple incident. There are chaps that link that to conclude the people are immoral and cannot differentiate between right and wrong.
Whether we like, love or disgusted with it is a personal thing. It maybe easy for someone to appreciate or understand it but tough for others. But the point is, we cannot deprive or stop someone else from eating durians simply because we cannot accept it. The acceptance is at a personal level not at society level.
Else, we will be going back to the ages where the government / faith impose all kinds of restrictions on the entire society to conform to.
Just like the TPN article about the Holland Village nude couple incident. There are chaps that link that to conclude the people are immoral and cannot differentiate between right and wrong.
green_tranquility
New Member
Being lesbians and gays doesn't mean they kill, rob people etc. It's not a crime to fall for the same gender. They never harm anyone. We shld respect their freedom and accept differences in society.
wiggly_toes
New Member
I agree in love it's not about winning or losing.
However if one has to see it as 'losing', I was just pointing out that if you are a woman and you 'lose' to a man, well...there's really nothing you can do there cos your husband prefers a man and you are not one - there wasn't any competition at all. How to compare or compete between apple and orange? If someone prefers apple it doesn't matter what type of orange is in front of him....he's looking at the apples.
As long as all parties are honest with themselves and do not cheat of course.
However if one has to see it as 'losing', I was just pointing out that if you are a woman and you 'lose' to a man, well...there's really nothing you can do there cos your husband prefers a man and you are not one - there wasn't any competition at all. How to compare or compete between apple and orange? If someone prefers apple it doesn't matter what type of orange is in front of him....he's looking at the apples.
As long as all parties are honest with themselves and do not cheat of course.