A place to meet new friends / partners

hi springleaf

dont give up...i am also in the same boat as u..but i have a never say die attitude in making new frds..
 


Sometimes i find making new friends damn tiring...it's like telling your life story...over and over and over again.... until u just get so sick of it.
 
mozz,

there should not be a need to tell life story. i never tell.. it should come naturally what you need to tell

And yes there are people telling me that it is tiring and stress to make friends - and that is because they give themselve stress.

to be it is easy. Happy be friends. Not happy, don't have to speak a word, just go separate way. What so difficult?
 
sm notice tat u seem really know how shoot till ppl like nothing to say ..watever we say u sure have something to shoot till we die..haha
 
Where to find friends.. anyone to advise me? I did join those single events but after that, no one follow up.

I really need more friends and I hope to find a partner who can click with me, cherish me..

Seeing all my girlfriends are busy with their wedding or their newborn babies.. I am envy and jealous at the same time. Suddenly I feel extremely lonely. When i feel happy, I have no one to share. When i feel depress, I have no one to comfort. Whem I am sick, I have no one to take care.
 
Try to put these thoughts behind and make friends first. Sometimes when you are too eager or having a agenda, it kinda work the reverse way.

Mingle around. Follow up need both ways. You can try to call other friends who are not getting married or such and make new friends who are not married. Well married personnel also have times to meet de ba.

When I am single, I am not lonely. I have my friends to meet up. If they are busy or what, I just spend the time doing my own stuffs. And unless I am bed ridden or having the risk of falling, I don't think I need people to take care of me when I am sick.
 
i hv recently moved out of marriage, hence need to get out more to pick up my life again and stop brooding.. count me in if this group organising anything ya...
 
springleaf u are not alone..no worry...i also lack of true frd who can share problem wif me..

Hi dolp do u annul ur marriage? i annul my marriage few mths back..hope to pick up my life back too...
 
wow i don't know got outing one. can i join, but i make myself clear first ok, hope no gals will come n tell she like me ok. hehehe
 
seems like some of us here are ratehr feelign lonely, esp deep in the heart. its like something is missing.. no matter wat u do, its stil empty.

i had tis feeling too....
 
Aiya don't puke la, feel lonely then come here write in some joke to wake my self up only. see, now i am flooded with saliva
 
Hi dolp and kenny haha like outing so much ah...if this group is ok for outing we can organise it la...can make more frds mah...

Hi lingblog so how ur checkup?i going my eye review soon this oct..cos last year i got retina retachment..doc operate it cut my eye white and cover up the tear in retina...sound grosss...never wan to enter into the opearting threatre again...imagine 2 different surgery on same eye and within 2mths..kao......the 1st time i got operate was cataract which i nearly cant see a single thing only eye is blurrly white..then next retina dectactment...wa liew...scary ah...

so guys better take care of ur eyes...dun be like me...
 
sgdoll ya i am not old..i am 28...i cant imagine tat also tat i have cataract when i go operation the nurse was all surprise...keep saying he is so young when i was push into the theatre..one nurse even told my mum how come so young got cataract,.


Lyn2wen no worry here is ur chance to make more frds and true frds thru this thread...hope we can oraganise outing one day.
 
So you have early cataract, smileguy. It is rare but not unheard of. Still, take care ok. When you are well, you can organise an outing for the people in this thread
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hi doll

i am ok le thanks...been thru 2 operation still not ok then jialat le ..haha i dun wan to go blind at such young age..

Outing mah..hmm...must see how many ppl in this thread interested mah.and to where or makan session also good...but i sure the out come will be good...
 
lyn2wen ya consider the youngest patient got cataract but when i go snec i even saw those children also wif eye cover by eye patch i duno wat operation they went thru also...
 
Smileguy, I am sure the people will enjoy the meet-up as long as they come with an open mind and to make more friends.

Mark, I was on MC on Friday. Been sleeping alot and in between the sleep got to reply email and answer phone calls.
 
Mark, I don't eat orange. Fancy that you are my buddy and don't even know that. Hng!

You sure you can handle Kenny? He is a mooncake thief leh haha
 
ya lo...its so heartpain...they so young lo..for me its my 1st time in surgery room...so scary...the most scary part was during my cataract surgery i can see the knife ah..wah liew...cos the doc say dun need put to sleep so i can see watever knife poking into my eye..but no pian la..and in fact coulding of my cataract so jialat i cant see clearly also..2nd time the retina dectachment surgery i scare le..i ask doc put me to sleep haha..
 

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