Mocha,
are you jumping to conclusions? Have you even read the exchanges?
This place is not a lousy place. Just that there are irritating flies that come in to talk incoherently and purposely get on nerves of those that sincerely want to talk sense to him. And now individuals like yourself coming in to pass judgement.
btw, Matters of the heart isn't exactly a forum to come in here feel good. What good feeling are you talking about?