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Laundry/ RaRa - " Is your I a very strong I?" "Wat's making me curious is u're an I meh? Do u feel the need to recharge with time alone before/after some social event? Or u thrive on it?"
Yes I need to recharge after social events and sometimes I decline going out with my frens also. I'm pretty much a loner though I enjoy company sometimes.
Yes I need to recharge after social events and sometimes I decline going out with my frens also. I'm pretty much a loner though I enjoy company sometimes.
laundry_woes
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Confirm we are big capital "I"s.
I also like to stone sometimes.
I think "I" type doesn't mean being individual or necessarily introverted. Is just that we're comfortable being with ourselves and we get our source of energy from inside ourselves (not reliant on others). I love doing things like watching movies, taking walks and chilling out at a cafe by myself. Guess as an only child, I've had plenty of training in keeping myself occupied.
laundry_woes
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Rite on, G~gal. Whether an E or I depends on where your source of energy is, your direction of focus. Incidentally, it's extrAversion vs introversion. Everyone can be an extrovert at some point or other. Extraverted people focus on people, energised by the outer world, interaction, believe in breadth of interest. Introverted people go for reflective thots, concepts, depth of interest, energised by inner world.
Wah. 3 days' course & wannabe expert liao. Eheheh..
Wah. 3 days' course & wannabe expert liao. Eheheh..
laundry_woes
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Me ISFJ. Protector. Quiet, friendly, conscientious. Committed & steady in meeting obligations. Thorough, notice & rem specifics abt people, strive to create orderly & harmonious env at work & home. I sound so boring. Blardee...
salsa_babe
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G~gal....sonni har....today me on leave...
yah got dinner appmt tonight. Supposed to meet latino and kobipin after dinner de...but something cropped up....
I was like an auntie this morning! queued up outside POSB early in the morning to help mum to change notes for CNY....
one auntie acted blur...tried to cut my queue!
more mata is needed at hougang man. this ah sian turned sibei ah siao. Dangerous...
skali run to Sengkang.....I scare...hahahaha....
Doing things alone....
I can shop alone...for many hours....stay at home alone....also no prob. Lim kopi outside..."mei wen ti" but never ask me go watch a movie alone........I dun like the kind of feeling. If there is a part I dun understand..no one to ask. If I laugh at a scene which I find it funny but the rest are not laughing...pple think I am a siao zhar char bor.
I want to watch movie!!!
think I really go bonkers liao..
yah got dinner appmt tonight. Supposed to meet latino and kobipin after dinner de...but something cropped up....
I was like an auntie this morning! queued up outside POSB early in the morning to help mum to change notes for CNY....
one auntie acted blur...tried to cut my queue!
more mata is needed at hougang man. this ah sian turned sibei ah siao. Dangerous...
skali run to Sengkang.....I scare...hahahaha....
Doing things alone....
I can shop alone...for many hours....stay at home alone....also no prob. Lim kopi outside..."mei wen ti" but never ask me go watch a movie alone........I dun like the kind of feeling. If there is a part I dun understand..no one to ask. If I laugh at a scene which I find it funny but the rest are not laughing...pple think I am a siao zhar char bor.
I want to watch movie!!!
think I really go bonkers liao..
Your Type is
ENFJ
Extroverted Intuitive Feeling Judging
Strength of the preferences %
1 50 25 22
<font color="0000ff">The Idealists called Teachers are abstract in their thought and speech, cooperative in their style of achieving goals, and directive and expressive in their interpersonal relations. Learning in the young has to be beckoned forth, teased out from its hiding place, or, as suggested by the word "education," it has to be "educed." by an individual with educative capabilities. Such a one is the eNFj, thus rightly called the educative mentor or Teacher for short. The Teacher is especially capable of educing or calling forth those inner potentials each learner possesses. Even as children the Teachers may attract a gathering of other children ready to follow their lead in play or work. And they lead without seeming to do so.
Teachers expect the very best of those around them, and this expectation, usually expressed as enthusiastic encouragement, motivates action in others and the desire to live up to their expectations. Teachers have the charming characteristic of taking for granted that their expectations will be met, their implicit commands obeyed, never doubting that people will want to do what they suggest. And, more often than not, people do, because this type has extraordinary charisma.
The Teachers are found in no more than 2 or 3 percent of the population. They like to have things settled and arranged. They prefer to plan both work and social engagements ahead of time and tend to be absolutely reliable in honoring these commitments. At the same time, Teachers are very much at home in complex situations which require the juggling of much data with little pre-planning. An experienced Teacher group leader can dream up, effortlessly, and almost endlessly, activities for groups to engage in, and stimulating roles for members of the group to play. In some Teachers, inspired by the responsiveness of their students or followers, this can amount to genius which other types find hard to emulate. Such ability to preside without planning reminds us somewhat of an Provider, but the latter acts more as a master of ceremonies than as a leader of groups. Providers are natural hosts and hostesses, making sure that each guest is well looked after at social gatherings, or that the right things are expressed on traditional occasions, such as weddings, funerals, graduations, and the like. In much the same way, Teachers value harmonious human relations about all else, can handle people with charm and concern, and are usually popular wherever they are. But Teachers are not so much social as educational leaders, interested primarily in the personal growth and development of others, and less in attending to their social needs.
Mikhail Gorbachev is an example of a Teacher Idealist. </font>
i'm Russian
ENFJ
Extroverted Intuitive Feeling Judging
Strength of the preferences %
1 50 25 22
<font color="0000ff">The Idealists called Teachers are abstract in their thought and speech, cooperative in their style of achieving goals, and directive and expressive in their interpersonal relations. Learning in the young has to be beckoned forth, teased out from its hiding place, or, as suggested by the word "education," it has to be "educed." by an individual with educative capabilities. Such a one is the eNFj, thus rightly called the educative mentor or Teacher for short. The Teacher is especially capable of educing or calling forth those inner potentials each learner possesses. Even as children the Teachers may attract a gathering of other children ready to follow their lead in play or work. And they lead without seeming to do so.
Teachers expect the very best of those around them, and this expectation, usually expressed as enthusiastic encouragement, motivates action in others and the desire to live up to their expectations. Teachers have the charming characteristic of taking for granted that their expectations will be met, their implicit commands obeyed, never doubting that people will want to do what they suggest. And, more often than not, people do, because this type has extraordinary charisma.
The Teachers are found in no more than 2 or 3 percent of the population. They like to have things settled and arranged. They prefer to plan both work and social engagements ahead of time and tend to be absolutely reliable in honoring these commitments. At the same time, Teachers are very much at home in complex situations which require the juggling of much data with little pre-planning. An experienced Teacher group leader can dream up, effortlessly, and almost endlessly, activities for groups to engage in, and stimulating roles for members of the group to play. In some Teachers, inspired by the responsiveness of their students or followers, this can amount to genius which other types find hard to emulate. Such ability to preside without planning reminds us somewhat of an Provider, but the latter acts more as a master of ceremonies than as a leader of groups. Providers are natural hosts and hostesses, making sure that each guest is well looked after at social gatherings, or that the right things are expressed on traditional occasions, such as weddings, funerals, graduations, and the like. In much the same way, Teachers value harmonious human relations about all else, can handle people with charm and concern, and are usually popular wherever they are. But Teachers are not so much social as educational leaders, interested primarily in the personal growth and development of others, and less in attending to their social needs.
Mikhail Gorbachev is an example of a Teacher Idealist. </font>
i'm Russian
laundry_woes
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Me & Latino even more "wei da". We Mother Theresa. Go ahead. Worship us. Mwahahha...
Laundry, Mother Teresa is also under INFJ leh (http://typelogic.com/infj.html)...
Powder, my hb is already helping a group of under-privileged kids (not just monetary wise but lacking in parental attention) everyday thru his work
Too bad it doesn't pay.
Powder, my hb is already helping a group of under-privileged kids (not just monetary wise but lacking in parental attention) everyday thru his work
laundry_woes
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Morning People!
G~gal, I not fussy. I also can be INFJ. Whichever category Mother Theresa is in. Heheh. Only the person himself or herself can tell for sure which type he/she belongs to. The rest of us can juz guess. Explains why the same person can be perceived as different personality types to different people.
Eh, actually quite interesting leh. So far the thriving marriages have similar type indicators. Mine hor, exact opposites. No wonder...
But then again, before we end up adding another criteria to the "List of Perfect Man to Marry", I wanna add disclaimer. Doesn't mean opposites can't thrive in a marriage hor. Opposites can attract mah. Juz takes more work to maintain it.
G~gal, I not fussy. I also can be INFJ. Whichever category Mother Theresa is in. Heheh. Only the person himself or herself can tell for sure which type he/she belongs to. The rest of us can juz guess. Explains why the same person can be perceived as different personality types to different people.
Eh, actually quite interesting leh. So far the thriving marriages have similar type indicators. Mine hor, exact opposites. No wonder...
But then again, before we end up adding another criteria to the "List of Perfect Man to Marry", I wanna add disclaimer. Doesn't mean opposites can't thrive in a marriage hor. Opposites can attract mah. Juz takes more work to maintain it.Laundry, I guess it depends on which opposing aspects of a couple's character. Eg if one is loud and the other one quiet, the r/s can still survive and maybe each of them complement the other. However, it maybe harder if one is confrontational and the other is submissive in the r/s. Then one may get bullied more often until oneday really cannot take it and leave the r/s. For me, I prefer a complementary r/s rather than one in which both parties are a contrast of each other.
You keep mentioning Mother Teresa.. you want to be a matyr???
You keep mentioning Mother Teresa.. you want to be a matyr???
laundry_woes
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Yup, personally I think the J & P is the most difficult combination. 1 likes structure, the other likes surprises. But then again, I think I'm naturally a J though I've learnt to relax in becoming more of a P due to my ex's influence. Not a bad thing I should say.
Do u hv to be dead to be a martyr har? K lah, I dun mind lah. People will remember me long after my death. Hopefully, for all the good reasons...
Do u hv to be dead to be a martyr har? K lah, I dun mind lah. People will remember me long after my death. Hopefully, for all the good reasons...
cecilialim
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still talking abt the personality test ah....
i think i spent 1k even be4 new year... just on clothes and gifts.... must recover with angbaos!
i think i spent 1k even be4 new year... just on clothes and gifts.... must recover with angbaos!
You still qualify for angbaos meh?? Oh you haven't gone thru customary... For me pretty simple, getting MIL to get ready all the angbaos for us since all the relatives are in M'sia so we dun have to change notes and pack angbaos ourselves 
And not spending any more money on clothes liao since we shopped in BKK. Only bought some abalone and bird's nest for my parents. MIL even gave us some CNY cookies to pass to my parents so we dun have to buy!
And not spending any more money on clothes liao since we shopped in BKK. Only bought some abalone and bird's nest for my parents. MIL even gave us some CNY cookies to pass to my parents so we dun have to buy! cecilialim
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qualify!!! haha cos not yet hole customary and wedding dinner!!! i no need to give angbaos also whahaha!!
cecilialim
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no need to give her money to pack one ah?
that's the beauty of it! Of coz me and hb will still give the usual allowance and "ya shui qian". And now that one of my BIL is married, have one person less to give.. hehe..cecilialim
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WHAT!!! i wan your MIL haha!! my hb ever since he was a kid... those angbaos that ppl give him he doesn't keep... all have to return to his mother for the angbaos she give to the children of those ppl who gave to him.... so he only gets his own parents and some relatives who deosn't have children...
for me every year i get about 400 to 500 angbao... think the older i go.. the lesser i get liao.. so sad
for me every year i get about 400 to 500 angbao... think the older i go.. the lesser i get liao.. so sad
salsa_babe
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Diana....have meh? which one?
wow.....sian....tmr is V-day........
Good morning all...
wow.....sian....tmr is V-day........
Good morning all...
salsa_babe
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Diana.....I know which one liao!
he is thinking of dating his ex-teacher wor....
think he is really really bored....
last Sat...saw the price of a stalk of rose. $10
wow....I can 4 plates of wanton mee.....
OK! later eat wanton mee for lunch......
Good good....boss working frm home today....I can sneak off earlier....
he is thinking of dating his ex-teacher wor....
think he is really really bored....
last Sat...saw the price of a stalk of rose. $10
wow....I can 4 plates of wanton mee.....
OK! later eat wanton mee for lunch......
Good good....boss working frm home today....I can sneak off earlier....
ah siao, u really siao huh...i see his posting i was like, huh 25 yrs old? sure bo, sound like 13 or 14 yr old boy lor....tink he really jia pa bo sai pang lor....
salsa, y sian? Vday nia mah....also juz another day but u will only get to see lots of couple on the street lor....o...i remember seeing one couple quarrel during one of the Vday, outside hereen and the guy was CRYING!! but they look beri young lah....teenagers nia...
salsa, y sian? Vday nia mah....also juz another day but u will only get to see lots of couple on the street lor....o...i remember seeing one couple quarrel during one of the Vday, outside hereen and the guy was CRYING!! but they look beri young lah....teenagers nia...
salsa_babe
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Diana.....last year's V-day still fresh in my mind mah....now no more V-day....so sian lor. Oredi tried to distract myself liao.
Maybe tmr go for pedi....dunno whether still got any slots or not...
Happy V-Day to everyone yah!
Maybe tmr go for pedi....dunno whether still got any slots or not...
Happy V-Day to everyone yah!
cecilialim
Active Member
salsa cheer up
you know the new novena square two? a few new mani pedi shops.. always like no people.. can go try.. a lot full until after CNY.. everyone rushing.. i gonna just buy nail polich and paint my own nails...
ya diana, that guy should be younger than 25... super bo liao
ya diana, that guy should be younger than 25... super bo liao
salsa_babe
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I am oredi not thinking much liao, getting much better too....but sometimes, the memories will just come back and start "eating" me up....
*munch munch munch*
*munch munch munch*
cecilialim
Active Member
salsa then you eat! i unhappy i will just eat.. and shop
salsa_babe
New Member
ceci....the *munch munch munch* is the memories eating me up lah...hahahaha.....
but when I am unhappy....I will shop n shop n shop! Eat? Jus 1 or 2 buns will do.....
but when I am unhappy....I will shop n shop n shop! Eat? Jus 1 or 2 buns will do.....