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chicken pox lost 10 kg??? goodness... ok my weight is very funny... i can gain easily from 44 to 46kg... once 46 will stop... the only way for it to go down is to be sick...i weighed myself at the doctor yesterday... was 44.4kg... so lost about 1.5kg.. thus pants cannot wear liao.. must wait until i get better and put back that 1.5kg then i can wear my pants again lor.. hehe
 
G~gal, i need to lose more than an inch... lol.

haha aiya cos i was very overweight in pri sch mah... so had a lot of excess weight to lose on that steamed fish + porridge diet for two weeks. but put on back soon after.
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cecilia, i can fit into my clothes in a very wide weight range leh... something like, 5kg? but of cos won't look nice if too loose or too tight lah.

ur pants are those dress pants non-elastic material har?
 
ya lor dress pants.. so must have the right amt of 'meat' at the right places... loose loose like wearing auntie pants lor... cannot... i can't accept haha!
 
so good lor... u can slack.... just go out do shopping la haha! when i worked in parkway parade, my boss goes overseas and no one in office... i just go shop around to kill time..
 
TGIF guys!!
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Yay today gonna pamper myself with mani/pedi with kopibin at latino's place... Salsa what time are you coming?? Eh... I thot you have a dinner to attend?
 
Morning Folks! How come tis week so dead? Salsa seems to hv gone bonkers liao.

I was on course the past few days. Pretty interesting & very inspired by it. Heard of MBTI? Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. It's actually a psychological tool. I use it more for self-understanding as well as discovering the differences between personalities. I know now why some of my frens are complete assholes. Why some SB forumers are drama-mamas. Why some people look for affirmation in decisions & retaliate when they dun get wat they are looking for. It's nobody's fault. Juz the differences in personality & the way u choose to live your life.

If u're still reading on, u might want to try tis test. It's not the exact questionnaire but my type's still the same leh. Mebbe I'm a textbook case. Very accurate for me. http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes1.htm
Quite a long list of questions & pls do it with an open mind. We are not playing horoscoping here. The choices u make has to be your PREFERRED choice hor. Cannot be influenced by circumstances, parents, environment etc. There is no right or wrong answers. Try leh, try leh.
 
haha i did this test twice before. once in sec4 and once in j2. diff results for the F/T and P/J in the two tests. i think it is very accurate too.
 
Aiyo....I thought how come my ears so itchy!!! No wonder lah...you gals talking about me...ANYONE MISSED ME???!!!

Been busy with work this couple of months and only happen to come back to this thread when someone send me the link to a topic on the forum...talking about the color of their pussy and how they wish it was pink-er...Was so tickled by the topic that I posted one reply to it... and salsa saw it....So here I am again...and so happen to come across this thread and see all of you here...Rara, Cecilia and salsa....

How's life gals?!

How come this thread so long winded one ah? What are we suppose to discuss?
 
hi all...long time never post here liao...this week i tried asking my boss for time-off 3 times...end up staying late each time. sianz...

i remember taking the MBTI 3 times. saw my results go from E to borderline I to extremely I. the rest of the letters never changed tho =P
 
Hey RaRa, did u dig deep enough a not? Your preferred option leh. Not one influenced by external factors. My instructor said (& I agree) tat your personality is your personality. It will not change over the years, unless u adapt it to your work, spouse, family etc. Actually there is another section on Preference Clarity on the original questionnaire. I'm also a bit of F & T at the same time. But I clearly tip over more on the F side.

Hi Powderful, we talk about anything under the sun here. But not interested in pussy colours though.
 
hi sapp! ya was hoping to see you at the gathering last fri. I just pm-ed you.

I've always been an extreme I. =P

powderful, this thread is chapalang thread. but the hottest topic has been cars.
 
Cars ah? Not that keen on cars unless it's racing...

Wat cars are you people talking about? Sports car? Family car?

And you all had gathering some more...so happening ah....who attended?
 
Argh! Sapp! U another one. Once an E, always an E. Something happened to make u move towards an I? Come, come, I give u counselling. Eheheh... As if...

The analysis is the interesting part. Some profiles are more suited for certain careers, some profiles are more prone to catastrophic results when subject to great stress. During the course, we took examples of well-known people & tried to analyse their types through little things they do & their habits. Fun sia...
 
Hey laundry, hmm i'm not sure. still young then lah. but i knew that my personality did change (for the better, my friends and I feel) since I entered JC. Opened up more and became slightly less petty, narrow-minded, pessimistic and judgmental.

I tried the test again just now leh. the 2nd letter changed too!! I think as I get older, I'm beginning to use my head less and less.
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Anyway, i don't agree that once you're something, you'll always be something. It could be that instead of being influenced by some event in your adult life, your inherent personality was warped or buried in response to or as a consequence of unhappy events during childhood or the teenage years and the true personality is only revealed through gradual self-discovery as one matures, gains more insight or adopts a different attitude towards life. At the point of taking each test, your assessment of yourself is bound to be affected by your mentality and attitude then.

From another angle, I think this test is a good reflection how your personality and attitudes have evolved over the years.
 
The challenge tis tool has is the difficulty in getting people to pick their preferred option. No man is an island. But tat is exactly wat u need to do when answering the questions. For example, we used Jim Carrey's character in "The Mask" in the workshop. Is his true personality the quiet bank teller who unleashes his wild side whenever the mask is on? Or is he really the wild & crazy fellow who adapted his personality to conform to his working environment in the bank? It's a debatable topic & only he himself has the answer.

Personally, I feel tat I dun really know myself. Intuitively, I seem to do things certain ways but I dun really know why. Finding out the type u are and knowing your possible negative traits so u can take note is good, isn't it?
 
laundry i another one what? maybe i was a fake E...haha. seriously, E was when i was in sec 1. by the time i took the 3rd test in j2, change a lot already. i think I is my real personality lah.

rara i saw your pm, email you back liao. must let me know how it goes!
 
laundry, the thing is preferences and priorities change. so the preferred option a few years ago might not be the same as now.

sapp, won't be able to check mail till I get home. haha my next update will be in april tho. *crosses fingers*
 
Hi... I've done the test a few times before and the results are always the same. I'm an INTJ type (http://typelogic.com/intj.html). Strange cos I never thought of myself as a perfectionist (or the shoes and bags must be matching type.. haha) yet everytime I do a test like this, the results always says that I am. Ok maybe cos I do make sure I cross my Ts and dot my Is ;)... Anyone similar?
 
RaRa,

Yes, the general context is tat preferences & priorities change. But in using tis psychological tool, u need to make a decision FREE from external influences. For example, u may really be an F person. But due to the nature of your work (say u're a judge & needs to be rational), u force yourself to be a T. It is possible. It doesn't mean an introvert can't have extroverting skills (incidentally tis can be learnt but it doesn't make u an extravert) or an extravert can't have quiet moments. A left-hander can train himself to write with the rite hand to conform to society's standards. But in everyday tasks tat u dun think abt, chances are the left-hander will still open doors with the left hand, receive things with the left hand etc. The more natural choice.
 
Ooo... INTJs are not common. Visionaries. Hv original minds & great drive for implementing ideas & achieving goals. Quickly see patterns in external events & develop long-range explanatory perspectives. When committed, organise a job and carry it thru. Skeptical, independent, hv high stds of competence & perf for themselves & others. U got potential to be next LKY lah. Eheheh...
 
Laundry, ya I realise that it's quite rare (1% of population??)... but I wonder if somehow if there's a mistake w my results and that it shld point to another personality type.. haha.. While I do have ideas and can implement them independently (which my job requires), I am quite easily bored also. Commitment at work is something of a challenge to me. Yet I always get this result for any test I take.
 
i did the test before.. but forgot liao....

so sian... later got D & D can go back at 4.30.. this morning took half day cos my medicine was so strong that i caouldn't wake up from sleep
 
laundry, actually I find it quite difficult to answer some of the questions because of their general nature. for example, when they ask whether you are organised, well, i'm organised in my work, but very messy at home. and as to whether one likes responsibilities, I would like some kinds of responsibilities but not others. so on what basis should we make our choices?

G~gal, I'm not sure about how well the analysis fits you, but I think the impression you give me is very much that of an NTJ type. Is your I a very strong I?
 
Could be tat ur commitment is towards a more long-term goal? U hoping to be a SAHM rite? I have commitment towards a task I'm doing. I will do it well. But doesn't mean I am committed at work. :P Wat's making me curious is u're an I meh? Do u feel the need to recharge with time alone before/after some social event? Or u thrive on it?
 
RaRa, ya.. I also pondered over some questions. Heheh. Based on the assumption tat u are more comfortable at home (without mom's nagging) than at your work place, I would assume u're the less organised type. Do u prefer the pigsty (messy) or the mental asylum (neat & empty)?
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U could be a clear P but have J attributes as well.

There are always exceptions lah. No tool is foolproof. But it's been pretty accurate for me & some frens so far.
 


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