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Fwah. Renewed admiration. Powder porn king leh. He even knows the secondary target audience.

Btw, juz wondering hor, from another thread, why do some men like xiao nu ren so much har? To feed their ego ah? I mean, I do enjoy doing simple things for my spouse but I can't bring myself 2b a xiao nu ren leh. Hmm... muz change my fishing target liao. Jap men like xiao nu ren one.
 
then look for ang mos lor... they like dominating women *wink* *wink*

Rara better skip your driving.. dun play play.. safety comes first.. and good luck for your interview!
 
Made in India....Made in India....

laundry....which thread u r referring to? I oso want to kaypo kaypo leh....

xiao nu ren may not be cuter hor...

now we know wat type of zhar bor this ah siao likes
 
yes yes....have to pay a bomb....have to sell this, sell that, borrow here, borrow that...in order to marry her off

if money no enuf....then the girl has to be prepared to kena beaten by the hb
 
Laundry, nowadays the definition of xiao nu ren is quite broad la.. not necessary means must cook and clean, and walk 3 steps behind. Just be more ladylike lor... dun put your feet on the dining table, dig any orifice or cuss. Must act more demure and most guys will be smittened.
 
whahaha.. no wonder my hb used to say i xiao nu ren but actually not.. cos when we got to know each other i ladylike and act demure...

LS again.. irritating... just ate ice cream and stomach rumbling again
 
Laundry, act "demure" not "stone"... booze not required :P

I had Bravissimo lemon sorbet just now... couldn't eat lunch... weather is too hot!!

Eh... anywhere to recommend for outing w my gal frens? What's a nice place to eat and hangout?
 
With or without car? With or without booze? Heheh. Villa Bali, Dempsey (hate the name Tanglin V), West Coast Macs (I dun care abt the young crowd there. I like the place!), Wine Company @ Evans, Robertson Quay etc.

Eh, Ceci, next time u feel like ice cream again, can go The Daily Scoop at Clementi. Shiok shiok. U got car mah. Tapau a tub of Surprisingly Coconut for me hor. Slurp.
 
Brewerkz is the one near Clark Quay? Ya the food there is not bad... What about SOHO @ Central? Anybody been to the new mall?
 
villa bali not bad.. i like that place too...

laundry.. i saty amk leh... nvr go clementi side... got car also no use cos i cannot recognise the roads
 
Laundry, obviously w/o car now la.. besides none of my frens drive :P Hmm.. prefer central locations so we can all go home more conveniently later. Just getting tired of the usual places like Bugis, Suntec, Marina Sq, Raffles City, VivoCity. Where else...
 
many tenants in Central not fully opened yet....
have not been there yet

Ben & Jerry giving free scoop on 12th, 12pm - 7pm Selected outlets nia...

Suddenly feel like going for a short trip
Koh Samui? Cebu? Phuket? Chiangmai?
 
wah... convenient chill out place ah.... just go bala lor...


central locations... hmm.. i used to go beer garden beside isetan...

or can go to intercontinental hotel lounge... plaza hotel louge also can.. goodwood park lounge also can
 
Ya Bala is too crowded. Just wanna eat dinner and catch up with 3 or 4 frens... See how.. maybe go to Balcony again ;) If go Millenia Walk, can sit at TCC lor... last time Bugis TCC, now MW TCC.. a bit boring also :P

Salsa, me also thinking of Phuket in June. Or maybe Maldives... just wanna go somewhere to nua besides my home... hehe..
 
thot u wanted to go BKK?

I wanna go somewhere with sun, clear water, clear blue sky....no noise...just smoothing sound of the waves...

I enjoyed quite alot when I went Krabi.....

seems like everyone is waiting for tat hopeless AL to reply.
 
Ya Salsa, thinking of BKK but maybe keep that for Dec.. nicer weather then.

Krabi is nice.. laid back and quiet in June... not as touristy as Phuket. Just thought try out Phuket since I haven't been there in a while. Koh Samui is nice too... my fren's been there.. but quite rustic. But not sure if this is the season to go?? I remember going to Krabi in June cos Koh Samui was having rainy season then.. but cld be wrong.. Geog was never my strong pt :P
 
Laundry, ya Maldives is v v lomantic. Last yr, nearly used my credit card pts to go on all-inclusive trip to Club Med Kani Resort in Maldives. Maybe wld have joined CAT in the mummy club liao.. hahaha...
 
club med maldives...tat ware i go for honeymoon....but cat did nt go there leh....so go some island in aust if i remember correctly....
 
hi all

long time never come in...read until blur already. (al?)

central mall has a v good ramen place but not cheap, my sis just brought me there yest. one bowl of ramen $12 min, toppings extra. but the soup is nice.

chill out place...can try the hotel lounge at marina mandarin? or walk down boat quay/clarke quay see what catches your attention.

back to work...
 
Hi Sapp! How have you been?? Thanks for the recommendation... I like ramen...is this the same one as the shop in Paragon basement?
 
o...haha....but i will say maldives is really a nice place to go.......in the nite, u can see the star so clearly.....kind of feel like u r in outer space....but can it abit bore....coz beside sea sport there is nthing much to do there liao....
 
Haiz... Diana, that's the best thing... to be totally cut off from the rest of the world. Just you and your loved one.. what is better than that?? No internet, no phone, no outside interference... just the sun, sand, sea... Nua.... and practise making bb ;) Practise makes perfect!! Haha....
 
Diana, hmm... seriously I am quite ambivalent about it, but my hb is quite keen for us to have a complete family. I do bitch to him about losing my freedom, but I guess eventually if we want a family, cannot delay too long also...
 
ya maldives is nice. I have been there. But water for shower a bit hard leh and salty.

But if you want to nuah, wah, perfect place.

Another nice place is mauritius - that is where I have my Honeymoon many many moons ago.

The place I wanna go - if there is another honeymoon is tahiti
 
actually guys... i think Al's having a hard time.

if u look at it in Realtime, from the time he posted until now... most pple are unable to react THAT Fast... let alone absorb fast enough to understand... and as he share his thoughts (his confused misaligned thoughts) more and more, he gets hit more and more... if we look at ourselves in those states of confusion... we couldn't react that fast either.

i'm not appealing for the man, i think he might or might not make the right decision... but i think clarity of mind is required, and that will always require Time.

problems with posts like these are that they rake up some very personal feelings from our personal experiences, and we might inadvertently flavour our posts heavily towards our experience, which is pretty natural, even for me... my gist here is - Realtime problem solving requires absorption... time to think. it is afterall a decision that will heavily impact several lives... as clueless as he may seem, i'm sure we can tell he's struggling between morals, ethics, love and future. being wrong is one thing, being responsibly wrong, or realising u are wrong... are different stages that may take time to see clearly - in this position. those of us struggling between 2 girls/guys will know it's not easy to make that choice. some will choose Right, some will choose Heart... if only Heart & Right are the same Person.

why i post here is becos that thread is too messy with too many pple wanting to say their piece to the point of possibly wanting to see an ending. most are championing the wife... but have we ever thought that his Wife will find a Better happiness without him? in fact it could be good riddance... if i take the side of the wife, i might just encourage him to release his wife from his blatant ignorance.

anyway just wanna share some thoughts in this thread. honestytrustfaith is the one who hit the nail on the head as to his current state... he's actually torn between freedom to choose again, and his own version of 'responsibility' to his wife. he's a kid who doesn't wanna give up his toy, yet wants to see and play other toys...
 
Tahiti is almost like a heaven.....

cant go far for my holiday liao. Fren has no leave....can only go bintan over the weekend for a spa retreat
 
powder... erm.. why u wanna tell us all these things? Maybe you wanna PM AL cos we're all crystal clear about his situation. Yup, he's wife is better off without him UNLESS he is willing to be more proactive in the saving of this r/s. Well... we dun see that, thus the bombardment.
 


I think we have spoken our say there. From his post we can see him taking one step forward then one step back again. But he is improving a little. Guess he just need a good friend by his side to guide him. What we say posted there was pretty obvious but he need guidance on how to resolve the issue.

He is starting to see something. At least now he is saying Ce is not in the picture. But again the wife is one step ahead and I think his wife is probably too smart for him to be able to anticipate. Just need a bit more time. His wife still love him. He just need a little more assertion to tell the wife.

Put it this way. We are jumping the gun to say the wife is better off without him. His wife is obviously a smart woman and there are probably some good points about him that we missed but his wife can appreciate.

I can say that there is a good chance of them having a happy marriage again - the wife is sort of forcing him to make a move - I hope he can just take that first step - ask the wife to shut-up and listen to him for once. That all he want is to love his wife and be together with her.
 
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