Dear all, I would like to seek advise from you guys.
I broke up with my fiancee 2 weeks ago due to my fault. I admit it is all my fault that lead to this issue.
How it happen?
We have a quarrel and a cold war after that. I filed an email to the hotel to inquire about the penalty for cancellation. In a few days time, it is our 8yrs anniversary and I send a flower jar to her on the 4th day hoping to break the cold war and tell her how much I care about her. Actually I was pretty stressed about the wedding and was hoping to change the venue to make it a smaller but cozy wedding. However, due to the cold war, I did not discuss with her.
This trigger the whole break up thing. She broke down during the cold war period and I did not know about it (since we did not talk). Eventually she made a decision to let go of the relationship and she revealed some things which she has been angry and tolerate at. For example, my impulsive reactions especially over texting. I could not recall when was the last time I ever scold her face to face. I did not beat her up. It is the way that I text is those 'anguish' tone when I disagree to something.
I tried to make her happy by doing all the DIY stuff. Promise her that I will change the way I talk/react. But she still insist on a break up.
We are on talking terms now. I'm chasing her all over again, getting to know more about each other. However, she said she has low confidence of us being together.
Is there anyone having the same encounter?
I broke up with my fiancee 2 weeks ago due to my fault. I admit it is all my fault that lead to this issue.
How it happen?
We have a quarrel and a cold war after that. I filed an email to the hotel to inquire about the penalty for cancellation. In a few days time, it is our 8yrs anniversary and I send a flower jar to her on the 4th day hoping to break the cold war and tell her how much I care about her. Actually I was pretty stressed about the wedding and was hoping to change the venue to make it a smaller but cozy wedding. However, due to the cold war, I did not discuss with her.
This trigger the whole break up thing. She broke down during the cold war period and I did not know about it (since we did not talk). Eventually she made a decision to let go of the relationship and she revealed some things which she has been angry and tolerate at. For example, my impulsive reactions especially over texting. I could not recall when was the last time I ever scold her face to face. I did not beat her up. It is the way that I text is those 'anguish' tone when I disagree to something.
I tried to make her happy by doing all the DIY stuff. Promise her that I will change the way I talk/react. But she still insist on a break up.
We are on talking terms now. I'm chasing her all over again, getting to know more about each other. However, she said she has low confidence of us being together.
Is there anyone having the same encounter?